[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

One could ask, though, is "boys just wanna have fun" (or more often, "boys will be boys") an excuse when male rappers/singers/trump/etc are objectifying women and glorifying aggressive sex? It feels, admittedly without pondering the issue too long, that many of us would quite LIKE to be able to continue criticising objectification and "locker room banter" and calling it out for what it is. That means also doing so when it's females "having their fun".

The idea that everyone should be fine with it/it being sexist not to be fine with it seems to be based on the entirely flimsy premise that "no one is bothered when men do it" when really, if we think about it for a minute, we obviously know that people are indeed bothered when men do it.

The reason 'people' are bothered that the men that make those kinds of statements about women is it comes from a different place. Songs about bitches and *****s aren't comparable to this song about enjoying ..um, adventurous sex.