[Kate!]

So my new year isn't going well and I'd like your opinions. Please don't bother to use this thread as an excuse to attack me, yes I'm talking to Glenn here. Constructive honest opinions please. I need to know if I'm in the wrong.

There's a poll oncoming, after I've explained.

Me and my partner are in a huge rut. He spends all his spare time on the x box and any affection has long since gone out the window. I'm unhappy. We never do anything together, we did used to. Like the cinema or a meal out once or twice a week. Or even a visit to a park in nicer weather. I felt like I couldn't talk it out without getting very upset so I wrote it down. I explained how I was feeling.

His response was that he had his own problems. I'll not say what cos that's his business. And he didn't need all this crap from me!

I was fuming, so I refused to cook tea. I told him things weren't right and he wasn't listening and trying to understand. I cooked for myself and he didn't bother, just had a yoghurt. I did feel bad but not enough to back down. Now we are aren't even speaking. I said we weren't a couple any more and from now on to just consider me a lodger, who cooks and shops for myself. He can do his own thing. He wasn't impressed.

I really did try to talk things through but was stonewalled.

Any thoughts?

The poll is for who you think is right?