[Tilly83]

Hi guys

I have not been on here in an age, but as I recall there are so many ppl on here that give good advice...

My problem is that I split up with my BF 2 wks ago(we had only been together 5 months), after not being able to see each other for 3wks prior to this due to problems I had at home and work. We started bickering and I felt like when i needed him most he wasnt there. I said some awful things to him and also flirted on facebook to get his attention, after an on/off week, we finally meet up and he told me he needed space and that he needed to concentrate on himself for a while.

I am very confused as we both love each other, we planned to have a family (even spoke of kids names) and even decided to buy a house next year. He has said i am the one and that he would fight for our relationship.

I spoke to him last Wednesday and told him i love him and wanted to try work things out, told him he is the one etc...Yet got the same reply I love you but i need my space... I told him i would give him that that i would not text, email or speak to him until he was ready to talk to me, I got a sad smiley (as unfortunately this was on facebook chat) I have had to delete him from my facebook to stop myself talking to him. . So from last Wednesday I have not had any contact with him at all.

I have since been off work with a Viral infection, and as we work together he would know this, I have not had a tx or call from him to ask how I am.
I am confused as even though it was only a 5 month relationship I knew he was/is the one.

How can it go from planning out kids names, buying a house, and talks about marriage to not even talking.

I am 26 and he is 23, Im so confused... I want him back but know if i push him he will only be even more distant, If i flirt with someone else he will only think oh let them have each other.

Please help