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Originally Posted by ElProximo
Steve might argue that the real compassion is in letting the child pay the harshest penalty.
The child might say that it is out of compassion for their parents they do NOT want them visiting them.
Forgiveness. If the child is remorseful then you certainly can forgive them for whatever the crime but that is not the same thing as having them pay the debts and consequences.
Two different things.
As for your hackneyed new parenting ideas I don't think there is any debate on this anymore when you only need to walk around the UK as see what totally disrespectful criminally-minded little pukes run rampant vandalizing and spitting,
and,
Yes, the mentality of these scallies and chavs is straight out of being deprived of any sort of discipline or understanding there are real consequences.
I suggest that your tactics are uncaring, unloving and show no compassion for victims.
Steve is more advanced than you on this one.
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Ha, ha - you do make some very valid points though! The results of that kind of parenting can be seen on many a thread on this forum!
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