So I was seeing this girl, and we were pretty serious. We'd talked about moving in and stuff, but things didn't work out in the end.

She has a daughter, who changed my world. She is an amazing little girl, bright as a button, but feisty to boot. We were inseparable when I was over at her house, and we were always doing activities and stuff.

I'd bought her Christmas presents a couple of months ago because I knew what she wanted - she loved messing with my piano, so that's what I'd got her. Now, it really isn't appropriate for me to be buying her piano's as I don't see her anymore, and I've split up with her mom. But I'd bought her a couple of tops as fillers, that will look really cute on her.

I haven't spoken to my ex for a couple of months, and I have no intention to either. I'm not using this as a way to make contact or any reason like that, but I'd really like to give the little one her smaller presents.

My ex's parents really liked me, so I was thinking of just popping them over there for her, so I don't have to have any dealings with my ex.

I guess I'm looking for people to help me rationalise this. If it was my daughter, then I'd like to be contacted first about an ex giving her a present, but we parted on such bad terms that there is no way she'd agree to it.

I'd hate for her to think, that I suddenly just stopped going round and I don't care for her anymore, when that's not true. My heart just bursts when I think about her little face.

So, peoples, whaddya reckon?