[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

All I'm saying MM&I,some guys talk like that,I didn't say it was right,but they do,walk past any building site etc,and you can hear how some men see women,its just a fact,but most of these men are probably really nice in their own relationships.

...hmmm, I'm not really sure that I understand that analogy..even if it was 'accepted' as ok with the building site thing ..those guys are commenting on a 'faceless' female that walks by and just on her physical appearance and giving it a 'rating'..?..whereas when Marlon made those comments about Kimberley, he had spent time with her, talked to her, got to know her a bit etc..and I think he even has said something about her intriguing him or something..?..yet he still spoke about her so openly and disrespectfully...