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Originally Posted by kistar
It's how she handles it though , she is 10 years older than Ashleigh for a start that's a lot of years to learn and grow , also there is a way to deal with conflict and it's not with aggression you do that when you are a toddler having a tantrum.
Clearly she hasn't listened and learnt.
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She has HEARD them saying things but has not LISTENED to anyone. There is a huge difference. You can hear things and choose to listen to what you want. She has never contemplated positive criticism. When Chris said about opposites on same page, she heard that but didn't listen.
If she had listened she would have ACTED as maturly as she SAID she would. She should have ACTED like the older woman, taken Ashleigh to the side and been the mature one. She should have said look we're both as bad as each other, but let's be happy to be two strong females and get on with it.
She instead chose to bitch.
She is 27, she needs to act it. She should approach the Ashleigh situation better as she is nearly 10 years older. And if she ever did that, she could of won.