[Livia]

Everyone is judged on the way they look... everyone. If you are not "the norm" less intelligent people are going to single you out. It's the way it is. As much as Trumpet is a little blunt, he is quite near the truth. If you don't want attention, don't be different. If you want to be different you have to take a certain about of singling out by stupid people.

Things are changing. Half a century ago you could go to prison for being gay. One of our greatest heroes, Alan Turing, had his whole life destroyed by the establishment because he was gay, despite virtually saving this country during the way. Now gay people have equal right, they can marry... the short-sighed jibes from dickheads is merely the death-throes of homophobia which I feel sure will not exist in a few generations. Hope so anyway.