[the truth]

Originally Posted by rubymoo

My nephew was suffering bullying at school - he was given a red card to get him out of class if he felt overwhelmed or if he felt threatened, this red card just gave him an excuse to use it as and when he felt like it, he could then go to student services get a cup of tea and a biscuit and play on the playstation to calm him down, fast forward to GCSE exams and he pretty much failed them all, not one member of staff dealt with his situation, he was pretty much set up to fail by being given a red card, because of the lack of structure and boundaries both in his home life and at school, he is now 18, has contemplated suicide, been on anti depressants, he has no aims or aspirations for the future and is in a very dependent relationship with his girlfriend (him being dependent), i worry for him and his future, and many people looking from the outside in would say that he is a kid/young adult who has been given everything (but in my opinion being on the inside, the one thing he hasn't had is safety and security, both in his home life and school life).

boys need a combination of structure and discipline as well as play time...they learn totally differently to girls ...but were not allowed to say that by the sick evil feminazis and the politically correct psychos of new labour....hence record male suicides in young men. its a farking national disgrace