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Originally Posted by White_L10N

Darren said “how much have you had to drink”. So clearly he seen this situation as something that is only warranted if you’re highly intoxicated! Men are more comfortable with their sexuality and can easily and effortlessly accept and move on from something like this. Which is my point. If the same were to happen to a woman. She would be in the diary room slating a man for being a perv.

You don’t tell a man who has a wife, on television, that you are interested in him. Why would you need to? Other than the hope that he will say he does too? This is the definition of seedy. Lacking moral fibre. From a societal perspective anyway. But because she’s a woman she gets away with her overt sexual nature. Men don’t anymore. They are expected to keep it to themselves. If you’re going to say men have to keep it to themselves then surely Tiff should be expected to as well. This is why it’s a double standard. I personally have no problem with Winston or Tiff being overtly sexual. Because you’re lying to yourself if you’re holding it in otherwise. What I have a problem with is the fact a woman’s body must be respected more so than a man’s.

Men are made to feel uncomfortable about their feelings towards woman. Then woman who like a guy complain he doesn’t have the balls to take it to that level. But he’s been wussyfied by the years and years of conditioning. All a woman needs to do is say .. “I appreciate you find me attractive. I would too if I were you. But I’m not interested”. Nobody said this to Winston. If he were to continue his behaviour after this fact then and only then does it become acceptable to claim he’s making you uncomfortable.

I can't even begin to wrap my head around these kinds of views. I thought you people were a myth.