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Originally Posted by Stormy

Yes...I think people are being way too hard on her.

She is not married...she is not even engaged. She's an immature 20-something who is dating and she fell in love with someone else. Do you know how normal that is???? If you met and dated and stayed with the first man you thought you loved, that is rare. Not saying it's impossible but, now a days, it's very rare.

What isn't normal is that it happened in a fish bowl where everyone is watching and JUDGING. It can't be helped who you fall in love with and how. They can't run away from the situation and they are too young to temper themselves. Don't any of you remember what it is like when you were in your early twenties?

...And before you start bragging... "I was never like that in my 20's...I was mature and knew my morals" - well good for you for being so exceptional, now go pat yourself on the back, but leave the poor kids alone.

This^^^^

She's young, she fell in love on tv, so what....let her get on with it and deal with the consequences when she gets out, people fall in and out of love all the time, there are no children involved, let her get on with it!

Well said Stormy