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Originally Posted by Brillopad

He works all sorts of hours. But the point being nothing was given to him on a plate he had to work for it, something we should all expect to do. Unfortunately I don't think enough people think ahead and just live for the moment, which causes problems later.

You have to be really careful here because what you're saying could be seen as very offensive to parents whose kids have just grown up, got a job but not managed to progress into an area of making a lot of money.

I'm sure you are proud of your son and so you should be. I'm very proud of our eldest son and I hope the same success to our other children, one of whom started uni last week and is now suffering the effects of thresher week!

But working hard is working hard. We live in a world where we need menial workers, we need skilled workers and we need high-flying academics. None of those people hold less value than the other. We are all the cogs that make the big wheel turn. All workers deserve to be able to afford the simple necessities of life. Some people are happy not to progress beyond what they love doing because they don't want or need the extra pressure; some workers are good with their hands, others with their brains. Lack of progression doesn't mean they don't work hard. Progression isn't a must and for many people its an impossibility.

The son who has just started uni is taking a maths degree. Right now he's not sure what he's going to do with that degree. All he knows is, maths is something he enjoys. Perhaps he will be a future economist or a professor or maybe he will just be a school teacher earning very little money for his efforts. His chosen profession doesn't matter so long as he's happy but my question is... can he be happy working hard for a poor salary... will it even be possible for him to continue living in London? and should I, as his mother, be less proud of him if he's not financially successful?

Would it of mattered to you if your son hadn't been successful? If he'd had learning difficulties at school but still managed to get a menial job? Would you be worried about his future in a metropolis of unaffordability?

Lets not just think about our own because that traps our mindset. Think outside the box and try looking at the bigger picture.