[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Of course he could win IF he stood up to Tomasz , Im sure a lot of people would have more respect for him .. Esp his long time partner !! If he was my GF and my BF had allowed another man to talk to him like Tomasz has spoke to Akeem I would end it and move on,I would lose all respect for him

Put your thinking cap on !

If Akeem "stood up " to Tomasz then people would be calling Akeem miserable & how he can't take a joke etc ,he may even bizarrely get called "homophobic" .

And when he laughs off Tomasz's behavior ,then he's seen as "spineless" or "silly" and how he's letting his girlfriend down.

I don't even know why his girlfriend is being dragged into this, it's not like Akeem is doing anything. He already told Tomasz he has a girlfriend and Tomasz knows he's straight.