[GoldHeart]

He's also older than me ,I don't know if that plays a part in this . He even wanted to know my bday which I told him . Anyway I should stop going on about him I guess....but if I hear anything I'll probably update this thread. But I doubt I'll be replying to him.

[Swan]

Yeah you're gonna get hurt if you don't stop. But the more he rejects you, the more you're gonna want closure and reasons why.

STOP!

The path only leads to unhappiness and frustration!

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Swan

Yeah you're gonna get hurt if you don't stop. But the more he rejects you, the more you're gonna want closure and reasons why.

STOP!

The path only leads to unhappiness and frustration!

Yeah I know this now

[Swan]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

Yeah I know this now

We are all human, i went through it recently, it hurts. Allow it to hurt, then do you best to move on!!

[thesheriff443]

Kate and parmy having a domestic

[thesheriff443]

I would encourage people to talk about situations like this.

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by hijaxers

Aww how right you are, i have a friend who's son is dating a ' fat girl ' cos she always has her tits hanging out and she's a goer ! How charming is that ? i've had to give arguing with her about it , as she lets them sleep together

It's a unique form of romance I'll say that.

Tbf though if they're both happy together then well done to them.

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

I would encourage people to talk about situations like this.

There's only so many ways I can describe a Tumbleweed on my love life.

[GoldHeart]

OMG !!!

I don't even know where to begin , he's sent me a message . 8 days later he's now Contacted me , I CANNOT even WOW ....

[The Slim Reaper]

Nobody leaves GoldHeart on read.

Seems like he's been keeping you in the back pocket in case other things didn't work out. Leave him well alone and ignore his messages.

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by The Slim Reaper

Nobody leaves GoldHeart on read.

Seems like he's been keeping you in the back pocket in case other things didn't work out. Leave him well alone and ignore his messages.

On a different note Dirty Dancing is one of my favourite movies .

But seriously .....this bloke is something else, I was right he's been discussing me with his mother & apparently they argued about me . And how he's been "having a think " .

[Kate!]

Run a mile GoldHeart

[The Slim Reaper]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

On a different note Dirty Dancing is one of my favourite movies .

But seriously , this bloke is something else, I was right he's been discussing me with his mother & apparently they argued about me . And how he's been "having a think " .

That sounds like bollocks. You need to be careful because it seems as though you like him, but seriously, just stay away. There is nothing good that will come from this.

[Swan]

Originally Posted by The Slim Reaper

Nobody leaves GoldHeart on read.

Seems like he's been keeping you in the back pocket in case other things didn't work out. Leave him well alone and ignore his messages.

BRILLIANT!!

But yeah, sound advice!

The more you ignore, the more frustrated he'll get. What goes around comes around, stay strong Goldy!

[Swan]

Originally Posted by The Slim Reaper

That sounds like bollocks. You need to be careful because it seems as though you like him, but seriously, just stay away. There is nothing good that will come from this.

Yep, agree with all that too tbh.

[The Slim Reaper]

Just to add, he hasn't been discussing you with his old Doris, either. It's an excuse.

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Swan

BRILLIANT!!

But yeah, sound advice!

The more you ignore, the more frustrated he'll get. What goes around comes around, stay strong Goldy!

I'm honestly speechless, unfortunately the stupid app has shown that I "viewed his page" a few times. I think he pays a membership to get notified damn it

As I don't pay a membership, therefore I can't actually see who's viewed me.

He also said he bets I'm angry at him

He wrote " bet you're angry with me * sad face* "

I feel like I'm being trolled

[Kate!]

Ghost him.

[The Slim Reaper]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

I'm honestly speechless, unfortunately the stupid app has shown that I "viewed his page" a few times. I think he pays a membership to get notified damn it

As I don't pay a membership, therefore I can't actually see who's viewed me.

He also said he bets I'm angry at him

He wrote " bet you're angry with me * sad face* "

I feel like I'm being trolled

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Kate!

Ghost him.

I AM

I don't even have the mindset to get into that , especially about his mother with him . The fact he thought it was necessary to gossip about me in the first place to her , already makes me gobsmacked tbh .

Can you imagine if the shoe was on the other foot and I did that to him , he's probably get offended.

Typical double standard bloke .

I just hate that I couldn't hide that I viewed his profile,he mentioned that in his message " oh I see you viewed me".

He's probably loving that .

[The Slim Reaper]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

I AM

I don't even have the mindset to get into that , especially about his mother with him . The fact he thought it was necessary to gossip about me in the first place to her , already makes me gobsmacked tbh .

Can you imagine if the shoe was on the other foot and I did that to him , he's probably get offended.

Typical double standard bloke .

I just hate that I couldn't hide that I viewed his profile,he mentioned that in his message " oh I see you viewed me".

He's probably loving that .

It doesn't matter if he loved it, because you can stop playing his game any second you want. There is nothing to win or lose here. Just keep it moving.

[Swan]

Originally Posted by The Slim Reaper

It doesn't matter if he loved it, because you can stop playing his game any second you want. There is nothing to win or lose here. Just keep it moving.

This is why Slim get's all the crumpet.

Nah, seriously, Slim is right Goldheart. If you play into his hands it's just gonna hamper you. A downward spiral of hurt, disappointment and frustration.

Move on! He's the loser, not you.

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by The Slim Reaper

It doesn't matter if he loved it, because you can stop playing his game any second you want. There is nothing to win or lose here. Just keep it moving.

He also said " he's sorry he hasn't been in touch " & how he "hasn't forgotten me anything but "


He also went into a long regular essay , about his days & what he's been up to .

He said his mother has been slagging me off basically .

[The Slim Reaper]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

He also said " he's sorry he hasn't been in touch " & how he "hasn't forgotten me anything but "


He also went into a long regular essay , about his days & what he's been up to .

He said his mother has been slagging me off basically .

And again, none of this matters. Drama is unnecessary in relationships, but drama before a relationship is a red flag holding another red flag which is waving a red flag.

[Swan]

Always avoid these type of red flags