[user104658]

Naaaaaaahhhh 99% of the time - and I'm not saying it NEVER happens, but 99% of the time - when people separate and the person with custody keeps the other partner (yes usually the bloke) out of the picture as much as possible, it's for a very good reason.

And when the men are crying and moaning about that extensively to their friends and family, about how unfairly they've been treated and how it's actually an attack on them, 99% of the time they either have zero self awareness or they're simply talking out of their arse for sympathy.

You can make that 100% when it's people bawling about it publicly online. They're weaponsing sympathy, if anything, happens all the time.

So you realise how rare it is for courts to grant single custody if both parents want it?

If the court has granted it it's for a good reason. It's actually far more common for the courts to grant full access when there HAS been abuse, than the other way around.

Take these "fathers for justice" whinges with an absolutely massive pinch of salt, I guarantee that almost every one of them made their own bed and are now just feeling sad (or angry) about having to lie in it.