[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Quantum Boy

A story gawping at a couple going about their day in public so intently that he can describe and analyse their every move. It would be disturbing/concerning but on this forum it barely raises an eyebrow .

We passed each other about 5 times whilst shopping you imbecile

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Zizu

We passed each other absolutely 5 times whilst shopping you imbecile

Yes everyone passes people while they're in the supermarket Zizu, most of us aren't staring at young women taking mental note of their appearance and style, trying to assess their every gesture, and writing bizarre fantasies in our heads about what they would or wouldn't say/do in response to various situations.

It's extremely unusual behavior and I feel like it's important to say so. Not because I think you'll agree but because this weird sht shouldn't be normalised in the world.

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Quantum Boy

Yes everyone passes people while they're in the supermarket Zizu, most of us aren't staring at young women taking mental note of their appearance and style, trying to assess their every gesture, and writing bizarre fantasies in our heads about what they would or wouldn't say/do in response to various situations.

It's extremely unusual behavior and I feel like it's important to say so. Not because I think you'll agree but because this weird sht shouldn't be normalised in the world.

As I mentioned previously ( and clearly) one of them was clearly disgruntled and seemed ‘edgy’ … she was clearly eyeballing people.. maybe someone had made a comment or given a disapproving glance their way - who knows

[Livia]

Originally Posted by Zizu

We passed each other about 5 times whilst shopping you imbecile

Ignore his incessant trolling.

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Livia

Ignore his incessant trolling.

Yes pop back into your bubble with this lot where it's safe Zizu, this feminist over here won't judge you for eyeballing young girls round the supermarket and making wild assumptions about them then posting them up on the internet.

This place is an absolute zoo, I swear.

[BBXX]

Originally Posted by Zizu

We passed each other about 5 times whilst shopping you imbecile

You still created a hypothetical situation in your own mind, and then used it in an argument to compare to me. Why? Why did you choose the example of a lesbian couple in response? What was the thought process behind the example you gave, an example you essentially made up.

If you have to question why one half of a lesbian couple might look towards a man staring at them every time he walks by them, with potential distain and 'ready to fight' then you should probably do some reading, but here are some helpers...

Firstly to be 'obviously in a couple' with one another as an LGBT couple in public is extremely vulnerable and secondly, there is a historical pattern on the way men treat lesbians (as you yourself have pointed out previously with that 'lad banter' in the pub about trying to turn them straight)

Do you really wonder why a lesbian might look unfavourably towards a man constantly surveying them while they're shopping for food. Does it surprise you she might be immediately on the defensive (if she even was?).

[user104658]

Originally Posted by BBXX

You still created a hypothetical situation in your own mind, and then used it in an argument to compare to me. Why? Why did you choose the example of a lesbian couple in response? What was the thought process behind the example you gave, an example you essentially made up.

In hindsight I think this (and by extension Livia when she said no one was eyeballing anyone) is probably correct; no one was eyeballing anyone because the entire "encounter" was most likely a work of fiction.

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by BBXX

You still created a hypothetical situation in your own mind, and then used it in an argument to compare to me. Why? Why did you choose the example of a lesbian couple in response? What was the thought process behind the example you gave, an example you essentially made up.

If you have to question why one half of a lesbian couple might look towards a man staring at them every time he walks by them, with potential distain and 'ready to fight' then you should probably do some reading, but here are some helpers...

Firstly to be 'obviously in a couple' with one another as an LGBT couple in public is extremely vulnerable and secondly, there is a historical pattern on the way men treat lesbians (as you yourself have pointed out previously with that 'lad banter' in the pub about trying to turn them straight)

Do you really wonder why a lesbian might look unfavourably towards a man constantly surveying them while they're shopping for food. Does it surprise you she might be immediately on the defensive (if she even was?).

I obviously wasn’t staring at her .. she didn’t even notice me ..

The fact that you are making this into something it clearly isn’t- actually says a lot tbh

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Zizu

The fact that you are making this into something it clearly isn’t- actually says a lot tbh

I'm going to be blunt Zizu and say that if I or others are making incorrect assumptions about your behaviour or intent, those assumptions are based on many of your other posts on here. You say things like this a lot. You make judgemental posts about young women (specifically), a lot.

[bots]

Originally Posted by Quantum Boy

I'm going to be blunt Zizu and say that if I or others are making incorrect assumptions about your behaviour or intent, those assumptions are based on many of your other posts on here. You say things like this a lot. You make judgemental posts about young women (specifically), a lot.

stop being blinking personal

[user104658]

Originally Posted by bots

stop being blinking personal

I'd take your suggestion a little more seriously if you'd ever shown an inclination to ask Livia (for example; there are others) to stop being personal ... but you won't, so I'll file your suggestion away under "no, if I'm going to stay on this forum it's not going to be to put my feet up and enable people's weirdness". Zizu makes weird comments about women on endless threads, and his post about "people watching" a young lesbian couple in the supermarket is fkn bizarre. If we can't point this stuff out I just don't know what to say. lol.

[Beso]

Originally Posted by Quantum Boy

I'd take your suggestion a little more seriously if you'd ever shown an inclination to ask Livia (for example; there are others) to stop being personal ... but you won't, so I'll file your suggestion away under "no, if I'm going to stay on this forum it's not going to be to put my feet up and enable people's weirdness". Zizu makes weird comments about women on endless threads, and his post about "people watching" a young lesbian couple in the supermarket is fkn bizarre. If we can't point this stuff out I just don't know what to say. lol.

Says the man who watches and describes his ex bookie punters almost weekly to each and every one of us right here on TIBB.

[Livia]

Originally Posted by Zizu

The fact that you are making this into something it clearly isn’t- actually says a lot tbh

It's the kind of manipulative stuff that happens in school. Don't take these crass comments to heart.