[Zizu]

Originally Posted by BBXX

Honestly, the amount of times I've seen someone say "Why is there a Pride Month but only a Veterans DAY" as a way to somehow make out like LGBT people are somehow being given special treatment is beyond a joke, it's such a cliche from those who are trying to make a certain point while at the same time uncovering how little they actually care about the Veterans they make out they care so much about (yet they actually don't give a **** otherwise they'd know there was a Military Appreciation Month).

Why are you so angry , so ready to fight !?!

Look I am a confessed ‘people watcher’


We were shopping in Tesco the other day and saw two young women ( obviously a couple) walking around holding hands and occasionally whispering in each other’s ears .

We walked past each other a few times up and down the isles and they were a few places in front of us at the queue .. now the one thing that was clearly noticeable was one of them was kinda ‘edgy’ and definitely more confident than the other and was actively seeking eye contact with anyone they walked past or who walked past them ..

I got the definite feeling that she was ready to ‘ go at it’ or to shout “what are you looking at ? “

Why not just be yourself why go looking for something that probably isn’t there ..

[BBXX]

Originally Posted by Zizu

Why are you so angry , so ready to fight !?!

Look I am a confessed ‘people watcher’


We were shopping in Tesco the other day and saw two young women ( obviously a couple) walking around holding hands and occasionally whispering in each other’s ears .

We walked past each other a few times up and down the isles and they were a few places in front of us at the queue .. now the one thing that was clearly noticeable was one of them was kinda ‘edgy’ and definitely more confident than the other and was actively seeking eye contact with anyone they walked past or who walked past them ..

I got the definite feeling that she was ready to ‘ go at it’ or to shout “what are you looking at ? “

Why not just be yourself why go looking for something that probably isn’t there ..

Why are you telling a story about two random lesbians in response to my post.

[user104658]

Originally Posted by BBXX

Why are you telling a story about two random lesbians in response to my post.

A story gawping at a couple going about their day in public so intently that he can describe and analyse their every move. It would be disturbing/concerning but on this forum it barely raises an eyebrow .

[BBXX]

Originally Posted by Quantum Boy

A story gawping at a couple going about their day in public so intently that he can describe and analyse their every move. It would be disturbing/concerning but on this forum it barely raises an eyebrow .

But...but... but they're just a people watcher. It's innocent.

Moreover I find it interesting that he's accusing me of being ready to fight and then connecting that to a story about another homosexual who he felt was 'ready to fight' ... like why? What do I have to do with this random lesbian couple he once saw?

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Quantum Boy

A story gawping at a couple going about their day in public so intently that he can describe and analyse their every move. It would be disturbing/concerning but on this forum it barely raises an eyebrow .

We passed each other about 5 times whilst shopping you imbecile

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Zizu

We passed each other absolutely 5 times whilst shopping you imbecile

Yes everyone passes people while they're in the supermarket Zizu, most of us aren't staring at young women taking mental note of their appearance and style, trying to assess their every gesture, and writing bizarre fantasies in our heads about what they would or wouldn't say/do in response to various situations.

It's extremely unusual behavior and I feel like it's important to say so. Not because I think you'll agree but because this weird sht shouldn't be normalised in the world.

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Quantum Boy

Yes everyone passes people while they're in the supermarket Zizu, most of us aren't staring at young women taking mental note of their appearance and style, trying to assess their every gesture, and writing bizarre fantasies in our heads about what they would or wouldn't say/do in response to various situations.

It's extremely unusual behavior and I feel like it's important to say so. Not because I think you'll agree but because this weird sht shouldn't be normalised in the world.

As I mentioned previously ( and clearly) one of them was clearly disgruntled and seemed ‘edgy’ … she was clearly eyeballing people.. maybe someone had made a comment or given a disapproving glance their way - who knows

[Livia]

Originally Posted by Zizu

We passed each other about 5 times whilst shopping you imbecile

Ignore his incessant trolling.

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Livia

Ignore his incessant trolling.

Yes pop back into your bubble with this lot where it's safe Zizu, this feminist over here won't judge you for eyeballing young girls round the supermarket and making wild assumptions about them then posting them up on the internet.

This place is an absolute zoo, I swear.

[BBXX]

Originally Posted by Zizu

We passed each other about 5 times whilst shopping you imbecile

You still created a hypothetical situation in your own mind, and then used it in an argument to compare to me. Why? Why did you choose the example of a lesbian couple in response? What was the thought process behind the example you gave, an example you essentially made up.

If you have to question why one half of a lesbian couple might look towards a man staring at them every time he walks by them, with potential distain and 'ready to fight' then you should probably do some reading, but here are some helpers...

Firstly to be 'obviously in a couple' with one another as an LGBT couple in public is extremely vulnerable and secondly, there is a historical pattern on the way men treat lesbians (as you yourself have pointed out previously with that 'lad banter' in the pub about trying to turn them straight)

Do you really wonder why a lesbian might look unfavourably towards a man constantly surveying them while they're shopping for food. Does it surprise you she might be immediately on the defensive (if she even was?).

[user104658]

Originally Posted by BBXX

You still created a hypothetical situation in your own mind, and then used it in an argument to compare to me. Why? Why did you choose the example of a lesbian couple in response? What was the thought process behind the example you gave, an example you essentially made up.

In hindsight I think this (and by extension Livia when she said no one was eyeballing anyone) is probably correct; no one was eyeballing anyone because the entire "encounter" was most likely a work of fiction.

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by BBXX

You still created a hypothetical situation in your own mind, and then used it in an argument to compare to me. Why? Why did you choose the example of a lesbian couple in response? What was the thought process behind the example you gave, an example you essentially made up.

If you have to question why one half of a lesbian couple might look towards a man staring at them every time he walks by them, with potential distain and 'ready to fight' then you should probably do some reading, but here are some helpers...

Firstly to be 'obviously in a couple' with one another as an LGBT couple in public is extremely vulnerable and secondly, there is a historical pattern on the way men treat lesbians (as you yourself have pointed out previously with that 'lad banter' in the pub about trying to turn them straight)

Do you really wonder why a lesbian might look unfavourably towards a man constantly surveying them while they're shopping for food. Does it surprise you she might be immediately on the defensive (if she even was?).

I obviously wasn’t staring at her .. she didn’t even notice me ..

The fact that you are making this into something it clearly isn’t- actually says a lot tbh

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Zizu

The fact that you are making this into something it clearly isn’t- actually says a lot tbh

I'm going to be blunt Zizu and say that if I or others are making incorrect assumptions about your behaviour or intent, those assumptions are based on many of your other posts on here. You say things like this a lot. You make judgemental posts about young women (specifically), a lot.

[Livia]

Originally Posted by Zizu

The fact that you are making this into something it clearly isn’t- actually says a lot tbh

It's the kind of manipulative stuff that happens in school. Don't take these crass comments to heart.