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Originally Posted by Strictly Jake

Thanks for the advice. Yeah I guess I haven't gave anyone a specific help instruction. I think I just need them to visit a bit more really, when anyone in our friends circle or family circle has had a medical problem or similar everyone seems to set up a WhatsApp on thats persons behalf to visit a lot, take meals etc, and they all said they will be visiting her all the time, but they visited her once when she came back form hospital and haven't been back since, its been 2 weeks, even people we aren't that close to have visited her once surely our closest friends and family should be wanting to visit more, especially when they said they would. But yeah I guess I haven't told them how im feeling about it. Its just when they post on Instagram for the past 2 weekends we are having "THE best time with the BEST people" it's sort of a slap in the face when im dealing with so much.

Im definitely being over dramatic and sensitive and reading too much into stuff but im just so tired and stressed. Yeah I will try reach out to them today

…we’re having such a wonderful summer with weather etc and it’s so easy to get wrapped up in just enjoying that, that it’s easy to forget those close to us eho may be struggling…making a rota/timetable etc in a WhatsApp group and asking who can fill each task etc will help in focusing your care circle into what needs to be done…and a speedy recovery to your wife also…..