[setanta]

No problem with at all, especially since I think that same sex relationships seem to have less hostility involved with them in general, which probably stems from my own experiences. Women and men just rub each other the wrong way.... statistics prove it. I think it could be argued that a more loving enviroment might stem from same sex partnerships.

[Wildcat!]

Originally Posted by setanta

No problem with at all, especially since I think that same sex relationships seem to have less hostility involved with them in general, which probably stems from my own experiences. Women and men just rub each other the wrong way.... statistics prove it. I think it could be argued that a more loving enviroment might stem from same sex partnerships.

I am sorry, but what???. WOmen and men rub each other the wrong way, and there is more love in gay relationship!! WTH??

FIne if you are OK with same sex adoption ( I am not by the way), but to say for some reason that Gay relationships are healthier than straight?

[InOne]

Originally Posted by Wildcat!

I am sorry, but what???. WOmen and men rub each other the wrong way, and there is more love in gay relationship!! WTH??

FIne if you are OK with same sex adoption ( I am not by the way), but too say for ome reason that Gay relationships are healthier than straight? Cmon now.

Why are you not ok with it?

[setanta]

Originally Posted by Wildcat!

I am sorry, but what???. WOmen and men rub each other the wrong way, and there is more love in gay relationship!! WTH??

FIne if you are OK with same sex adoption ( I am not by the way), but too say for ome reason that Gay relationships are healthier than straight? Cmon now.

No no, I don't mean that it's that cut and dry lol; it's just an opinion of mine seeing as divorce rates are climbing yearly.

[Wildcat!]

Originally Posted by setanta

No no, I don't mean that it's that cut and dry lol; it's just an opinion of mine seeing as divorce rates are climbing yearly.

HOw many gay couples get married? Of course their divorce rate is lower.
ANd how long was it even allowed to have gay marriges?

Anyways, yeah I dont think it should be dissallowed the gay adoption but straight couple should be the priority imo.

[setanta]

Originally Posted by Wildcat!

HOw many gay couples get married? Of course their divorce rate is lower.
ANd how long was it even allowed to have gay marriges?

Anyways, yeah I dont think it should be dissallowed the gay adoption but straight couple should be the priority imo.

I'm not talking about just marriage; I'm talking about relationships here and cases of domestic abuse and marriage break ups that are happening all the time. It's doubtful that there's as many bust ups in gay partnerships... hey, I might be wrong but I just think that opposite sexes drive each demented on occassion lol.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Wildcat!

HOw many gay couples get married? Of course their divorce rate is lower.
ANd how long was it even allowed to have gay marriges?

Anyways, yeah I dont think it should be dissallowed the gay adoption but straight couple should be the priority imo.

I agree with this^^^^

It's not that I don't think same sex couples wouldn't do a good job, I just think that having both a mother & a father is a more "ideal" situation. I have 2 kids 1 boy and 1 girl and especially for my son there are alot of things that my husband gives to my son that I couldn't. He benefits greatly from having a father in his life.

[30stone]

Originally Posted by setanta

I think it could be argued that a more loving enviroment might stem from same sex partnerships.

What?



and what about the riducule?

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by 30stone

What?



and what about the riducule?

i think the poster is referring to happy land where the liberals run free and you get lager out of the cold tap.

[setanta]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

i think the poster is referring to happy land where the liberals run free and you get lager out of the cold tap.

Happy land? What are you talking about? Don't hide behind your own ignorance and fear of other ways and methods of living. It's not as black and white as that... you're far too rigid.

I'm simply stating that same sex partnerships should be given that opportunity to nurture and love a child if they've been together for a significant length of time. The cold reality it that divorce rates are climbing all the time and domestic abuse is everywhere in heterosexual relationships. They're not exactly working so why not allow same sex relationships to have a child?

[NettoSuperstar!]

Originally Posted by 30stone

What?



and what about the riducule?

People get ridiculed for all sorts of reasons, wearing glasses, ginger hair etc...its not right for people to have to change because of bullies. Bullying needs to be tackled by society...

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by NettoSuperstar!

People get ridiculed for all sorts of reasons, wearing glasses, ginger hair etc...its not right for people to have to change because of bullies. Bullying needs to be tackled by society...

again in "happyland"

[NettoSuperstar!]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

again in "happyland"

Right so what your saying is a ginger haired boy should dye his hair incase of ridicule? Or should we as a society say ridicule is wrong? We've come along way because people have fought prejudice Trumpet dude, so dont give me "its the way it is bollox"! If we all had that attitude we'd still be sat round the fire in our caves mate!

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by NettoSuperstar!

Right so what your saying is a ginger haired boy should dye his hair incase of ridicule? Or should we as a society say ridicule is wrong? We've come along way because people have fought prejudice Trumpet dude, so dont give me "its the way it is bollox"! If we all had that attitude we'd still be sat round the fire in our caves mate!

No I am saying I would not like to be the wee boy at school with 2 dads. I think where possible we should have mums and dads and we should do everything we can to maintain that.

I know that lots of gay folks are on dj and tibb and it can get a little squewed in terms of influence but with 1-5 % of the population and then a tiny percentage of that having a CP and wanting to adopt, there are bigger fish to fry in terms of adoption.

[30stone]

Originally Posted by NettoSuperstar!

People get ridiculed for all sorts of reasons, wearing glasses, ginger hair etc...its not right for people to have to change because of bullies. Bullying needs to be tackled by society...

Bullying wont stop, EVER.

people get picked on every day at school and it doesnt stop until they move school sometimes.. it happens again.

[NettoSuperstar!]

Originally Posted by 30stone

Bullying wont stop, EVER.

people get picked on every day at school and it doesnt stop until they move school sometimes.. it happens again.

No but prejudice can be tackled and has been, and not by hiding away either

[30stone]

Originally Posted by NettoSuperstar!

No but prejudice can be tackled and has been, and not by hiding away either

Yeah but on a school layground it will still happen?

Normal kid
normal kid
normal kid
normal kid with 2 dads.
normal kid
normal kid
normal kid..

Who they gunna pick on.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by 30stone

Yeah but on a school layground it will still happen?

Normal kid
normal kid
normal kid
normal kid with 2 dads.
normal kid
normal kid
normal kid..

Who they gunna pick on.

a school layground?

blimey, school has changed since i was a boy - all we had was "kiss, cuddle and torture"!

[NettoSuperstar!]

Originally Posted by 30stone

Yeah but on a school layground it will still happen?

Normal kid
normal kid
normal kid
normal kid with 2 dads.
normal kid
normal kid
normal kid..

Who they gunna pick on.

Yeh replace that with normal kid with ginger hair...its the prejudice that should be tackled, if kids are educated and society starts to accept it as the norm, then it'll happen less and less, people shouldnt be stopped from having the equal rights because of bullies

[Princess]

Originally Posted by 30stone

Yeah but on a school layground it will still happen?

Normal kid
normal kid
normal kid
normal kid with 2 dads.
normal kid
normal kid
normal kid..

Who they gunna pick on.

I was a 'normal kid',yet I still got bullied. FFS at one point,I got bullied by a redhead! Nowt against redheads btw. Kids will bully other kids for any reason,if they don't like they'll find some reason to bully them,having 2 loving parents isn't always gonna be a reason.

[MrGaryy]

Originally Posted by 30stone

Yeah but on a school layground it will still happen?

Normal kid
normal kid
normal kid
normal kid with 2 dads.
normal kid
normal kid
normal kid..

Who they gunna pick on.

a school playground is just that - a school playground where every single kid is going to get picked, one day it will be the black kid, the next the ginger, the next the gay, the next with one with 2 mums or dads and then the next the one with braces. In this day and age school are so diverse anyway that everyone has something a little different with them. You can;t just assume that because someone has 2 dads they're going to be bullied over someone with one.