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Originally Posted by angus58
"Nice guys finish last", a true saying that has been proved again and again.
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What bull! Yes, silly young girls often go for the arrogant types, but they usually grow out of it - if that is what you're talking about, sounds like it!
But in business - those that show self-confidence, not arrogance - not the same thing - that have the qualities to manage and lead people by offering and gaining back mutual respect - are far more successful. These sort of people have the courage of their convictions and will stand up against the majority - when they believe the majority are wrong. They are led by their own values and principles - and not by being popular or feared. On the whole, people admire and respect that and respect and admiration beat fear any day.