[MrWong]

Originally Posted by Seeing each other

I cannot help for the life of me ask if being Gay (when one is young) is the new rebellious Punk Rock and Roll. My Niece goes to college and is being put under pressure to believe she is "Gay", and it is NOW about finding who "ain't" Gay. It just seems to be the be the new "Trend" for very spoilt children to go down.
I say all that because SHABBY looks like she just being a spoilt brat and is all about outsmarting people and doing things to wind people up the wrong way. If someone sees this girl in 10-15 years and finds her living in a massive country house with her BANKER BONUS husband and 3 children talking about her rebellious "experimental days" do not be surprised.

How on earth someone can be in a house for a matter of days and cry on national TV for a straight girl is beyond me and drives me mad, then talks about her feelings that have to just be put down as insane, spoilt and uncontrollable at the end of the day. Shabby is nothing but a spoilt brat of and actress doing whatever the hell she pleases, and I have got her number.

So you think being gay is just a trend for her most probably because she's spoilt..

... and think it's wrong for her to cry over a straight girl.

She's gay, being spoilt (pure speculation by you) has F all to do with it.
Why can't you accept that she's gay? It's not a 'trend'.
Your niece exploring her sexuality won't make her gay, either she is or she isn't. Shabby Ranks is 24, i'm sure she knows exactly who she is by now.

Gay lads/lasses fall for straight people alot, it happens. You can't help who you are attracted to, it's how you deal with it that matters.

They get upset too when it's unrequited love. Ya know, just like straight people do when they like some and they don't like them back?? Then they might have a lil cry about it... big deal. It's the same for straight people isn't it?

Most of the hm's have gotten emotional, they've spoken about their feelings too, shocker!!

Or is it only Shabby Ranks that's not allowed to?

Try dialing that number, i think you'll find it's the wrong one.

[MojoNixon]

Originally Posted by MrWong

So you think being gay is just a trend for her most probably because she's spoilt..

... and think it's wrong for her to cry over a straight girl.

She's gay, being spoilt (pure speculation by you) has F all to do with it.
Why can't you accept that she's gay? It's not a 'trend'.
Your niece exploring her sexuality won't make her gay, either she is or she isn't. Shabby Ranks is 24, i'm sure she knows exactly who she is by now.

Gay lads/lasses fall for straight people alot, it happens. You can't help who you are attracted to, it's how you deal with it that matters.

They get upset too when it's unrequited love. Ya know, just like straight people do when they like some and they don't like them back?? Then they might have a lil cry about it... big deal. It's the same for straight people isn't it?

Most of the hm's have gotten emotional, they've spoken about their feelings too, shocker!!

Or is it only Shabby Ranks that's not allowed to?

Try dialing that number, i think you'll find it's the wrong one.

MrWrong....

[MrWong]

Originally Posted by MojoNixon

MrWrong....

Great reply.
I use more brain cells when i strain for a sh!t.

Dunno why you bother.

[MojoNixon]

Originally Posted by MrWong

Great reply.
I use more brain cells when i strain for a ****

Dunno why you bother.

Really MrWang?

[GiRTh]

Originally Posted by MrWong

So you think being gay is just a trend for her most probably because she's spoilt..

... and think it's wrong for her to cry over a straight girl.

She's gay, being spoilt (pure speculation by you) has F all to do with it.
Why can't you accept that she's gay? It's not a 'trend'.
Your niece exploring her sexuality won't make her gay, either she is or she isn't. Shabby Ranks is 24, i'm sure she knows exactly who she is by now.

Gay lads/lasses fall for straight people alot, it happens. You can't help who you are attracted to, it's how you deal with it that matters.

They get upset too when it's unrequited love. Ya know, just like straight people do when they like some and they don't like them back?? Then they might have a lil cry about it... big deal. It's the same for straight people isn't it?

Most of the hm's have gotten emotional, they've spoken about their feelings too, shocker!!

Or is it only Shabby Ranks that's not allowed to?

Try dialing that number, i think you'll find it's the wrong one.

I agree with much of what you say but not the bits in bold.

No doubt all you say in bold is true from your own personal experiences but from my experiences as a straight man, if I was attracted to a woman and she told me she was gay I’d still be attracted to her, but my pursuit of her would end pretty abruptly. As she is clearly unattainable. I’d probably get upset but I know I’d never cry about it.

Shabby’s contradictory nature is one of the things I find quite interesting about her, but I still think it is frankly absurd to cry when someone so out of her league – in so many ways - rejects her advances. Shabby likes to tell others to grow up but in this instance she’s showing incredible emotional immaturity.

[MrWong]

Originally Posted by GiRTh

I agree with much of what you say but not the bits in bold.

No doubt all you say in bold is true from your own personal experiences but from my experiences as a straight man, if I was attracted to a woman and she told me she was gay I’d still be attracted to her, but my pursuit of her would end pretty abruptly. As she is clearly unattainable. I’d probably get upset but I know I’d never cry about it.

Shabby’s contradictory nature is one of the things I find quite interesting about her, but I still think it is frankly absurd to cry when someone so out of her league – in so many ways - rejects her advances. Shabby likes to tell others to grow up but in this instance she’s showing incredible emotional immaturity.

Locked in a house 24/7 would it end as abruptly? You can stay away from her, Shabby can't. Also being in the house might make the situation worse, Michelle (bb5) wouldn't take no for an answer, Craig (bb6) was a bit of a nightmare. I guess it all depends how they behave outside of the house, which is something we won't ever know.

I don't think Caoimhe is clearly unattainable. She's flirted with Shabby Ranks, she's also told her that if she didn't have a boyfriend she'd get it on with her. She's giving Shabby hope in a way.

I don't think Caoimhe's out of her league either.

[MojoNixon]

Originally Posted by MrWong

Locked in a house 24/7 would it end as abruptly? You can stay away from her, Shabby can't. Also being in the house might make the situation worse, Michelle (bb5) wouldn't take no for an answer, Craig (bb6) was a bit of a nightmare. I guess it all depends how they behave outside of the house, which is something we won't ever know.

I don't think Caoimhe is clearly unattainable. She's flirted with Shabby Ranks, she's also told her that if she didn't have a boyfriend she'd get it on with her. She's giving Shabby hope in a way.

I don't think Caoimhe's out of her league either.

[GiRTh]

Originally Posted by MrWong

Locked in a house 24/7 would it end as abruptly? You can stay away from her, Shabby can't. Also being in the house might make the situation worse, Michelle (bb5) wouldn't take no for an answer, Craig (bb6) was a bit of a nightmare. I guess it all depends how they behave outside of the house, which is something we won't ever know. .

My pursuit would end immediately because I’d have Craig and Anthony at the back of my mind and making such a fool of myself would definitely be on my mind.

Originally Posted by MrWong

I don't think Caoimhe is clearly unattainable. She's flirted with Shabby Ranks, she's also told her that if she didn't have a boyfriend she'd get it on with her. She's giving Shabby hope in a way. .

I say unattainable because she’s straight and has a BF

Originally Posted by MrWong

I don't think Caoimhe's out of her league either.

Again, out of her league because she has a BF.

I think Shabby’s cant handle any kind of set back in life and her tears and tantrums back that up. I find her quite interesting but not at all likeable.

[MrWong]

Originally Posted by GiRTh

My pursuit would end immediately because I’d have Craig and Anthony at the back of my mind and making such a fool of myself would definitely be on my mind.


I say unattainable because she’s straight and has a BF


Again, out of her league because she has a BF.

I think Shabby’s cant handle any kind of set back in life and her tears and tantrums back that up. I find her quite interesting but not at all likeable.

How do you know you wouldn't make a fool of yourself? You've never been locked up 24/7 with someone you really like. Also we don't know how Michelle and Craig behave in real life, maybe it was being in the house that made them act the way they did or maybe they are the way they looked on the TV. We'll never know.

Caoimhe said she's bi. Whether she has a b/f or not. She also said if she didn't have a b/f she'd go for it with Shabby.