[MrWong]

Originally Posted by GiRTh

I agree with much of what you say but not the bits in bold.

No doubt all you say in bold is true from your own personal experiences but from my experiences as a straight man, if I was attracted to a woman and she told me she was gay I’d still be attracted to her, but my pursuit of her would end pretty abruptly. As she is clearly unattainable. I’d probably get upset but I know I’d never cry about it.

Shabby’s contradictory nature is one of the things I find quite interesting about her, but I still think it is frankly absurd to cry when someone so out of her league – in so many ways - rejects her advances. Shabby likes to tell others to grow up but in this instance she’s showing incredible emotional immaturity.

Locked in a house 24/7 would it end as abruptly? You can stay away from her, Shabby can't. Also being in the house might make the situation worse, Michelle (bb5) wouldn't take no for an answer, Craig (bb6) was a bit of a nightmare. I guess it all depends how they behave outside of the house, which is something we won't ever know.

I don't think Caoimhe is clearly unattainable. She's flirted with Shabby Ranks, she's also told her that if she didn't have a boyfriend she'd get it on with her. She's giving Shabby hope in a way.

I don't think Caoimhe's out of her league either.