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Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Does this make it right "she admits to it"? no it doesnt

That might be acceptable if she did it once, realised her faults - and it didn't happen again! But no - it has become a cycle of behaviour - that just gets repeated over and over again! No justifying that!

You can't just say - oops aren't I a jealous cow - and then keep doing it over and over again! The only ones likely to justify that type of behaviour - are those that see those faults in themselves and are simply trying to justify their own thought processes!