[Zippy]

Originally Posted by Brekkie

He's just actually poored his heart out to Josie and all he gets in response is "I don't want to talk about it".

Poured.

And he has said he does NOT fancy her so what the hell is he pouring is heart out about? He's just messing with her head ffs.

If he's just a friend then there's no need for all this emotional crap. The guys got serious issues..that much is clear!

[Jack_]

Originally Posted by Zippy

And he has said he does NOT fancy her so what the hell is he pouring is heart out about? He's just messing with her head ffs.

There's a huge difference between fancying someone and being in love with someone.

[Abhorsen]

Originally Posted by Jack_

There's a huge difference between fancying someone and being in love with someone.

And there is a huge difference between loving someone as a friend and wanting to ******* them.

Also, there is a huge difference between wanting to win BB and loving the HM you are using.

[Zippy]

Originally Posted by Jack_

There's a huge difference between fancying someone and being in love with someone.

But if his love for her doesnt involve fancying her then its not compatible with how she feels about him! And if its just friendship love then what the hell is all the drama about?

And how the hell can he be in love with her after a few weeks? Nonsense. The guy clearly has attachment issues.

Meanwhile, he shouldnt be getting close and feely with her because that is misleading her totally. If he doesnt ever want sex then BACK OFF with that stuff.

[Abhorsen]

Originally Posted by Zippy

But if his love for her doesnt involve fancying her then its not compatible with how she feels about him! And if its just friendship love then what the hell is all the drama about?

And how the hell can he be in love with her after a few weeks? Nonsense. The guy clearly has attachment issues.

Meanwhile, he shouldnt be getting close and feely with her because that is misleading her totally. If he doesnt ever want sex then BACK OFF with that stuff.

It's like Dave said, if you want a SERIOUS relationship then of course there has to be sexual attraction from both people involved. Anyone who thinks otherwise is either a lovesick immature teen or delusional. Relationships (couples) between adults requires sexual attraction - otherwise THEY ARE JUST FRIENDS!!! The lines are only blurred when you are talking about sexually immature people aged between 16-21 for example.

[watchinittoomuch]

Originally Posted by Abhorsen

It's like Dave said, if you want a SERIOUS relationship then of course there has to be sexual attraction from both people involved. Anyone who thinks otherwise is either a lovesick immature teen or delusional. Relationships (couples) between adults requires sexual attraction - otherwise THEY ARE JUST FRIENDS!!! The lines are only blurred when you are talking about sexually immature people aged between 16-21 for example.

Oh I agree with you both but dont know how to double quote...but yeah...gotta have the sex for sure

[Jack_]

Originally Posted by Zippy

But if his love for her doesnt involve fancying her then its not compatible with how she feels about him! And if its just friendship love then what the hell is all the drama about?

And how the hell can he be in love with her after a few weeks? Nonsense. The guy clearly has attachment issues.

Meanwhile, he shouldnt be getting close and feely with her because that is misleading her totally. If he doesnt ever want sex then BACK OFF with that stuff.

He can't help the way she feels about him though. If you're in love with someone, you're in love with someone. Simple as that.

Don't forget that it takes longer on the outside world because you don't see a person half as much as you do in the Big Brother house. He has basically seen/spent time with her for the best part of 18-24 hours for the last 7-8 weeks. That's more than enough time for an extremely strong friendship/love to develop.

If he's in love with her, then that's why he's getting close and feely with her. Because he cares for her and wants to comfort her. Not because he wants to get his dick sticky. It's a different kind of touchy-feely. Of course it could be seen as misleading someone and that's where his problem lies...but he can't help the fact that he loves her.

[Patrick]

Originally Posted by Jack_

There's a huge difference between fancying someone and being in love with someone.

This.