[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Zippy

I don't think women dream about sex. They dream about the less messy aspects of relationships with men.

Get a grip, women (in general) may have less of a sex drive, that doesn't mean we're asexual!

[Zippy]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Get a grip, women (in general) may have less of a sex drive, that doesn't mean we're asexual!

Im not saying they don't want sex. I just think they dont fixate and fantasize directly about the actual sex act but more about the all round nature of the relationship. Maybe more romanticized.

For example, regards porn, most men can get off just by watching any random sex as long as the participants are hot. Whereas I think women prefer a scenario with some kind of story that slowly builds up to the actual sex. I remember having this discussion with a group of my sisters mates once and they all said this.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Zippy

Im not saying they don't want sex. I just think they dont fixate and fantasize directly about the actual sex act but more about the all round nature of the relationship. Maybe more romanticized.

For example, regards porn, most men can get off just by watching any random sex as long as the participants are hot. Whereas I think women prefer a scenario with some kind of story that slowly builds up to the actual sex. I remember having this discussion with a group of my sisters mates once and they all said this.

I agree with your sisters mates to a point but I think both the build up and the act are important. I mean did they actually say that they only like the build up? I'm guessing not. And, you're crazy if you think we only think about the romantic side of things

[Zippy]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

I agree with your sisters mates to a point but I think both the build up and the act are important. I mean did they actually say that they only like the build up? I'm guessing not. And, you're crazy if you think we only think about the romantic side of things

No but my point originally goes back to JF saying that TV shows with good looking guys are popular because women dream about sex with them. But I don't think its the sex they dream about but more the fantasy of maybe having a relationship with these hot guys. Whereas a man will view a hot woman on TV and instantly fantasize about her being naked....and the sex.

This is very simplistic but I do think women have a more romantic mind whereas men have a more porno mind.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Zippy

No but my point originally goes back to JF saying that TV shows with good looking guys are popular because women dream about sex with them. But I don't think its the sex they dream about but more the fantasy of maybe having a relationship with these hot guys. Whereas a man will view a hot woman on TV and instantly fantasize about her being naked....and the sex.

This is very simplistic but I do think women have a more romantic mind whereas men have a more porno mind.

wrong, wrong, wrong...........do you think I've ever once dreamt of being in a relationship with Gerard Butler? I can tell you now, I haven't I think maybe the mistake you're making is that you're taking the word of younger girls. Can I ask what age your sisters mates are?

[Zippy]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

....do you think I've ever once dreamt of being in a relationship with Gerard Butler?

yes

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Zippy

yes

lol, I haven't.........ever. Fantasising about being in relationships with celebrities is for teenage girls.

[Jessica.]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

wrong, wrong, wrong...........do you think I've ever once dreamt of being in a relationship with Gerard Butler? I can tell you now, I haven't I think maybe the mistake you're making is that you're taking the word of younger girls. Can I ask what age your sisters mates are?

tmi