[Ammi]

Yes, I guess it is the like nature v nurture and the social environment and family background dictates a lot. But if you've got say a child who is a 'leader' and another who is a 'sheep', I wonder if they follow that same pattern through adultdood. Same as the bully and victim, or popular and unpopular. Interestingly, just about everybody I know will say they weren't in the popular crowd at school but nobody seems to say they were in the in crowd.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by rhino

Yes, I guess it is the like nature v nurture and the social environment and family background dictates a lot. But if you've got say a child who is a 'leader' and another who is a 'sheep', I wonder if they follow that same pattern through adultdood. Same as the bully and victim, or popular and unpopular. Interestingly, just about everybody I know will say they weren't in the popular crowd at school but nobody seems to say they were in the in crowd.

hhhmmm, But most people who say they weren't in the "in" crowd can name who the in crowd were