[Visage]

Originally Posted by fruit_cake

..then later he totally ignored Maisy when she was apologising to him.

He was brushing his teeth at the time.

(Not exactly the best way to have a discussion.)

[fruit_cake]

Originally Posted by Visage

He was brushing his teeth at the time.

(Not exactly the best way to have a discussion.)

seemed to me that he was purposely ignoring her. I think everyone could see that. She shouldn't have stole his icing but she went out of her way to apologise. It must have been quite intimidating going in there after him.. but his reaction was way way over the top in my view.

[ChristmasNeeve]

Originally Posted by fruit_cake

seemed to me that he was purposely ignoring her. I think everyone could see that. She shouldn't have stole his icing but she went out of her way to apologise. It must have been quite intimidating going in there after him.. but his reaction was way way over the top in my view.

She probably should have left him calm down abit first. He was obviously still angry. I think if she left it an hour or so or even till the next day she would have gotten a better reaction

[fruit_cake]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

She probably should have left him calm down abit first. He was obviously still angry. I think if she left it an hour or so or even till the next day she would have gotten a better reaction

that's true I agree it would be better later on but she obviously felt guilty and sorry for him so wanted to set things straight in the moment..everyone can make difficult judgements in the heat of the moment. His behaviour was very intimidating, especially to Maisy and all over a silly cake.

[ChristmasNeeve]

Originally Posted by fruit_cake

that's true I agree it would be better later on but she obviously felt guilty and sorry for him so wanted to set things straight in the moment..everyone can make difficult judgements in the heat of the moment. His behaviour was very intimidating, especially to Maisy and all over a silly cake.

Yeah, I agree. I understand where she's coming from too. It might make her think twice before she touches someone elses things again though! I know it's only a cake but I guess it's more about showing respect to other peoples belongings at the end of the day.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by fruit_cake

that's true I agree it would be better later on but she obviously felt guilty and sorry for him so wanted to set things straight in the moment..everyone can make difficult judgements in the heat of the moment. His behaviour was very intimidating, especially to Maisy and all over a silly cake.

It's only intimidating if you don't respect others,where do you draw the line on what people can just take from you without asking?

[fruit_cake]

Originally Posted by kazanne

It's only intimidating if you don't respect others,where do you draw the line on what people can just take from you without asking?

Maisy shouldn't have put her finger in the cake, but to make a huge moral issue about it is way way OTT in my view. If it were my cake I'd probably have told her to have it if it would make her happy as it would also have made her fat instead of me.