[Gaynor186]

Originally Posted by MTVN

No reason why he would suddenly feign sympathy now for someone who he's made it clear throughout this whole series that he can't stand, he's not the psychopathic women beating monster that he's made out to be

Not keen on him, but agree.....rather have him than those who sat 'egging' him on at 'the rant'.......Arron, Luke S, Ashleigh and Caroline. Add Becky to that mix now.....for turning into the two-faced ... she is today. Shame, as someone famous once said....."she coulda been a contender"

[Niamh.]

Yes, I think he was sincere, it sounded so strange hearing him say something sympathetic towards Deana though

[mirak_eel]

Think he did actually feel sorry for her, it'd take a cold person not to feel sorry for her in that situation, when you're already emotional due to hearing from your own family. My opinion hasn't changed though, he's still a horrible person, and has been horrible to my fave (Deana) all series, so still want him out.

[aj2463]

I don't know if it was genuine or not but it was one of the weirdest moments of this series for me, was quite shocked, in a kinda good way though

[Beverley]

Originally Posted by joeysteele

I love your line that Life gave you lessons so you could teach others,that is something I live by, I'm only 20 but already life has shown me how much I can learn from others and events.

I would like to thank you for sharing your story with us on here and was sad to read it too.

Your great balancing of the Conor situation is a really welcome one too and I can see that outside of the house and deep down he is likely a good person really too.

I had to take some time out from the forums to regroup, I found the requoting of the epulator quite frustating, hence my outburst (I am utterly sorry to anyone who read my post that have experienced what I have, we are all at our own level).

Originally Posted by Marc

I think he was genuine.

That's why I posted what I did and was blunt (sorry but had to), he was just being immature, and there's plenty in there guilty of that.

[blythe5050]

Did you see his face when her letter was read out. He didnt give a s.... okay it was all for show. Keep buyin his act. He still nommed her also.

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[Mystic Mock]

Nah just clever gameplaying off The Wannabe Rapist, I don't trust him whatsoever.

[Beverley]

Originally Posted by The Mockinator

Nah just clever gameplaying off The Wannabe Rapist, I don't trust him whatsoever.

I pity people like you that JUST don't get EXACTLY what you are saying. You make Conor out to be bad, but you are worse than him with statments like this.

What does a 'Wannabe Rapist' look like, please tell me?

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by Beverley

I pity people like you that JUST don't get EXACTLY what you are saying. You make Conor out to be bad, but you are worse than him with statments like this.

What does a 'Wannabe Rapist' look like, please tell me?

Look im sorry about what happened to you but threatening to stick an Epilator up Deana's minge and then laughed at it afterwards means that he likes the idea but doesn't have the guts to go through with it himself.

And also he has threatened both Benedict and Scott in the house so it's not like it was a one off outburst.

[Beverley]

Originally Posted by The Mockinator

Look im sorry about what happened to you but threatening to stick an Epilator up Deana's minge and then laughed at it afterwards means that he likes the idea but doesn't have the guts to go through with it himself.

And also he has threatened both Benedict and Scott in the house so it's not like it was a one off outburst.

Ok, we have to look at this objectively, besides what I have experienced, I get that, ok, here we go:

I've met Irish guy's like Conor and also women (was very good friends) with ppl like Deana.

The Irish will put it to you in such a way you will recoil in horror,they are blunt,up front and don't pull any punches. Then in the next minute they will have your back thru thick and thin.

I also have been blessed with a very good friend, idential like Deana. We've been out drinking a few times and she's been met with (in her own lauguage) "look at her, out drinking with white trash and looking like a tramp", she replied (fluently in the same language) "I understood every word, you make me sick and your values are pre-historic".

What my Asian friend told me was that her OWN mother would make statements such as "I'll sew your fanny up so that sex hurts", "You make our family ashamed", "I'll punch your vagina", I was so shocked but apparently according to my very good friend of Deana standing, this is current and accepted. Believe me, Conor's rant's were nothing compared to what their own parents will and do tell them!

Conor's remarks HAVE to be answered but from my knowledge first hand, ALOT of you are far, VERY far off the mark.

[alex_front2]

Originally Posted by Beverley

I pity people like you that JUST don't get EXACTLY what you are saying. You make Conor out to be bad, but you are worse than him with statments like this.

What does a 'Wannabe Rapist' look like, please tell me?

If you dont realise - bet you do - Conor stated to Ash n Luke S his intent to rape and punch down an unsuspecting Deana. A Rape claim happened in BB Brazil THIS YEAR so please spare me all the horse sh*t about this cant happen as theres cameras in BB. Conor spooked deana by saying he wanted Siobhans old bed...next to deana. You're welcome.

[Beverley]

Originally Posted by alex_front2

If you dont realise - bet you do - Conor stated to Ash n Luke S his intent to rape and punch down an unsuspecting Deana. A Rape claim happened in BB Brazil THIS YEAR so please spare me all the horse sh*t about this cant happen as theres cameras in BB. Conor spooked deana by saying he wanted Siobhans old bed...next to deana. You're welcome.

Oh I don't realise, I couldn't realise not being able to move a muscle in my body not even scream, but KNEW EXACTLY what was happening to me.. I would also wake up MONTHS down the line, PARALIZED in bed, willing a finger to move or an arm so I could wake up from my never ending nightmare.

The guys that raped me were arrested and charged.

One was married, a succesful archietect, another living with his gf and a self-employed builder.

DON'T EVER TELL ME TO SPARE YOU THE HORSE ****, NEXT TIME YOU COLLAPSE FULL VIEW OF THE PUBLIC ON A RAILWAY STATIONAND THE REST, UNTIL THEN, AND ONLY THEN, IF EVER YOU ARE EVER UNFORTUNATE TO GO THROUGH IT YOURSELF, DON'T ******ING TELL ME TO SPARE YOU THE HORSE SH*T, EVER......./. What a true arsehole you really are.........

[Jords]

Bev you have to remember not everybody knows your story and Im 100% sure they would not want to disrespect you for what happened.

[JTM45]

Originally Posted by Beverley

Ok, we have to look at this objectively, besides what I have experienced, I get that, ok, here we go:

I've met Irish guy's like Conor and also women (was very good friends) with ppl like Deana.

The Irish will put it to you in such a way you will recoil in horror,they are blunt,up front and don't pull any punches. Then in the next minute they will have your back thru thick and thin.

I also have been blessed with a very good friend, idential like Deana. We've been out drinking a few times and she's been met with (in her own lauguage) "look at her, out drinking with white trash and looking like a tramp", she replied (fluently in the same language) "I understood every word, you make me sick and your values are pre-historic".

What my Asian friend told me was that her OWN mother would make statements such as "I'll sew your fanny up so that sex hurts", "You make our family ashamed", "I'll punch your vagina", I was so shocked but apparently according to my very good friend of Deana standing, this is current and accepted. Believe me, Conor's rant's were nothing compared to what their own parents will and do tell them!

Conor's remarks HAVE to be answered but from my knowledge first hand, ALOT of you are far, VERY far off the mark.

I have many Irish friends and morally they aren't any different to anyone from anywhere else. If you're a decent person you're a decent person, regardless of your nationality!
None of my Irish friends or any other Irish people i have known through the years would ever talk about a woman in the way Conor did and would be disgusted by anyone, Irish or otherwise, that did.

And to try and say that because 'some' Indian people (certainly not Deana's mother judging by what we've seen of her) have views and beliefs that belong in the dark ages that Conor's vile rant somehow pale's into insignificance in comparison to 'their' parent's (i presume you were referring to the parents of Indian children when you used this generalization ?) current and 'accepted' (who exactly 'accepts' such behaviour other than those behaving in such a way ?) attitudes and behaviour is ridiculous!

Yes, some people are exaggerating the intent behind Conor's remarks but equally nobody should be down-playing the disgusting nature of what he did say which is undeniable!

[waterhog]

don't buy any of conors sorrow.

[Beverley]

Originally Posted by Jords

Bev you have to remember not everybody knows your story and Im 100% sure they would not want to disrespect you for what happened.

I'm sorry to anyone that has unfortunately gone through the same and have seen what I have posted, you have all my heart and more. Thanks Jords, I just think the word is overused on the internet and ppl who spout it have no idea on the impact of those who have TRUELY gone thru it first hand.

Originally Posted by JTM45

I have many Irish friends and morally they aren't any different to anyone from anywhere else. If you're a decent person you're a decent person, regardless of your nationality!
None of my Irish friends or any other Irish people i have known through the years would ever talk about a woman in the way Conor did and would be disgusted by anyone, Irish or otherwise, that did.

And to try and say that because 'some' Indian people (certainly not Deana's mother judging by what we've seen of her) have views and beliefs that belong in the dark ages that Conor's vile rant somehow pale's into insignificance in comparison to 'their' parent's (i presume you were referring to the parents of Indian children when you used this generalization ?) current and 'accepted' (who exactly 'accepts' such behaviour other than those behaving in such a way ?) attitudes and behaviour is ridiculous!

Yes, some people are exaggerating the intent behind Conor's remarks but equally nobody should be down-playing the disgusting nature of what he did say which is undeniable!

You judge your view on what you have seen on tv, I judge mine on being best friends with several indian woman, all have said the same. How you judge that is up to you, I know they are pissed off with how they are treat and deamed in society. Just wonder what your sources are?