[Vicky.]

OK I cant be arsed doing the whole video..but here is some of it. That proves Callum added his own words to what Dexter said(after he explained what he thought it meant to Gina), and later went on to make it out to be sinister.

Callum: 'The way I interpretted an hour and a halfs worth of conversation, you said 'Callum academically on paper youve got a degree, I havent, on paper you're smart'. And I think, and I'm paraphrasing but your words were essentially I'm more streetwise than you, and if you try to **** with my head

*smiles*

And I'm fairly specific here 'I will stick it in you'. You said 'I will stick it in you' 'If you try to **** with me, I will stick it in you'

Gina: *giggling* Thats so sexual

Callum: I cannot, I would never have made up or, or, fabricated that term. You said 'Callum, if, academically you piss all over me. But streetwise, if you try to **** with me, if you try to get under my skin I'm mentally superior to you, and I will stick it in you

Dexter: I didnt say I was mentally superior, I would never ever say that

Callum: ok, you said 'Callum if you try it with me, I will stick it in you' And I discussed it for fifteen minutes upstairs

Gina: Well what does that mean, stick it in you?

Calum: It means bend me over and stick his cock inside me Gina

*laughter*

Gina: What.oh god.

*Callum smiles and shakes his head*

Dexter: Sorry, I know you're having a moment but its just the way you said that

Callum: I'm not having a moment, I'm relaying word for word 'I will stick it inyou Callum' is what you said to me at the counter with Dan cooking, and Charlie and Hazel having a private conversation. You said, 'if you try it with me Callum, I will s..I will bend you over and stick it in you'.

[Marsh.]

Except Dexter was using the analogy that Callum insinuated he was.

Dexter said "spank my arse and stick it in me" if that's not a reference to being anally penetrated then I don't know what is.

So, as Callum said, that's either referencing having control over someone metaphorically or literally shagging them. A way of saying you are superior.

Also Dexter seemed under the impression that it was said weeks ago, not on that night.

The fact Dexter used the same phrase on that night in reference to himself just shows that Dexter uses that phrase.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by MTVN

But the evidence is clear for all to see for what Dexter really said

Callum relayed it incorrectly, Dexter couldn't remember whether he said it or not so he did get himself in a bit of a muddle but only because he was then being forced to explain a non existent comment that Callum had made up

But the fact is Dexter said he would do SOMETHING in his words he would do him as in stick the boot in,imo that is wrong,whatever the exact words were,it wasn't nice,almost as bad as Dexter saying he would ruin someones life and saying something to Sophie about trailer park trash whatever it was,but that gets overlooked,you don't have to get something right word for word to know its intention was not nice.

[LemonPen]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

OK I cant be arsed doing the whole video..but here is some of it. That proves Callum added his own words to what Dexter said(after he explained what he thought it meant to Gina), and later went on to make it out to be sinister.

And then after that, Dexter said he couldn't remember saying that, right? But Gina said something like "No, no, i think that is something you would say"

So, not only did he not say that, but he had to explain a non existing comment, because otherwise, everyone would have believed Callum...

[fingers]

Re Vicky's post above:

There will be several who will say you have misheard that or that you are putting the wong interpretation on it!! (I'm not one of them!)

Edit: I've just seen something that makes me say "I told you so"

[LemonPen]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

But the fact is Dexter said he would do SOMETHING in his words he would do him as in stick the boot in,imo that is wrong,whatever the exact words were,it wasn't nice,almost as bad as Dexter saying he would ruin someones life and saying something to Sophie about trailer park trash whatever it was,but that gets overlooked,you don't have to get something right word for word to know its intention was not nice.

Omg -_- Dexter said "On paper, You (Callum) spank my arse, and stick it in me"
The guy clearly meant that on paper, it's not even worth bothering, because Callum would own him hands down. It's a compliment for God's sake, why is it so hard to understand?

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by LemonPen

Omg -_- Dexter said "On paper, You (Callum) spank my arse, and stick it in me"
The guy clearly meant that on paper, it's not even worth bothering, because Callum would own him hands down. It's a compliment for God's sake, why is it so hard to understand?

Who do you think you are talking to?I cant be bothered with rude people,its my opinion,understand that and get angry

[DanaC]

Originally Posted by 08marsh

The fact Dexter used the same phrase on that night in reference to himself just shows that Dexter uses that phrase.

This. For all we know dexter may have used variations on this theme on more than one occasion. Much the same way that various people repeatedly use the phrase 'mugging himself/myself off'.

The video people are using to prove he said something different may not be the same occasion to which Callum referred. We see a tiny proportion of what is said and done in that house.

[Marsh.]

It's not the same occasion. As Dexter himself says, Callum is referring to something said "4 weeks ago". The fact he said it on the same night worded differently just proves Dexter says it.

[fingers]

There seems to be too many apologists for something which is unforgivable.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by DanaC

This. For all we know dexter may have used variations on this theme on more than one occasion. Much the same way that various people repeatedly use the phrase 'mugging himself/myself off'.

The video people are using to prove he said something different may not be the same occasion to which Callum referred. We see a tiny proportion of what is said and done in that house.

That's fair enough but not only was the phrase he used similar but the actual conversation that Callum was referring to was also the same

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by 08marsh

It's not the same occasion. As Dexter himself says, Callum is referring to something said "4 weeks ago". The fact he said it on the same night worded differently just proves Dexter says it.

Its strange, that means they must have had the 'piss all over me' conversation at least twice

[LemonPen]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

Who do you think you are talking to?I cant be bothered with rude people,its my opinion,understand that and get angry

Idk how you took that as "Rude" and "Angry" Behavior... Sorry mate, didn't want to come across like that.

[fingers]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Its strange, that means they must have had the 'piss all over me' conversation at least twice

It was said at some time, Dexter probably just pulled 4 weeks ago fom somewhere same as he said "it sounds like something I could have said"

This clutching at straws to exonerate Callum is laughable.

[wormsinfested]

You are posting the wrong conversation. Dexter has said this more then once! Dexter is a pile of filth, a worthless piece of human. A waste of skin and bones.

[fingers]

Worth repeating:
This clutching at straws to exonerate Callum is laughable.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Its strange, that means they must have had the 'piss all over me' conversation at least twice

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by fingers

Worth repeating:
This clutching at straws to exonerate Callum is laughable.

I don't think it's trying to "exonerate" him. More trying to prove he's not entirely in the wrong.

[Issac]

Does not matter what he really said the HL show edit made both look stupid. Most voters base their whim judgement from the main show.
Its clear that the social experiment is not about the persons in the house but manipulation of the viewers.

[DanaC]

Originally Posted by wormsinfested

You are posting the wrong conversation. Dexter has said this more then once! Dexter is a pile of filth, a worthless piece of human. A waste of skin and bones.

yes he has. But, no he isn't.


This sort of over the top assessment of housemates is just silly. They're people. They have failings and qualities and sometimes they do and say horrible things.

Nothing that anybody in that house has done or said warrants this kind of response. It's forgivable coming from fellow housemates because they are stuck with each other and that magnifies the emotional context, but we're outside peeking in and as such have no excuse for it.

Hitler, Pol Pot, Ian Brady: they are deserving of such assessment. A bunch of contestants arguing and playing mind games with each other for a reality game show really aren't.