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Originally Posted by Lee.

I drank wine when I was pregnant, I chose not to breastfeed... I demanded to be pumped full of drugs during labour, I even ate barbecued food every week
I don't feel any guilt or embarrassment whatsoever.. They're all MY decisions and I have two beautiful healthy and well looked after kids

That's great. No one was asking you to justify yourself. As someone who is comfortable with her choices, you should have no problem with others pointing out the facts.

No one has a problem with you making your own decisions for your family. What I have a problem with, is people who want the facts buried because it "makes them feel bad" to hear it.

Or in this case, a mardy cow who has decided to set out to demonize a young barman because he "dared" to try to do something good and embarrassed her in the process. Whether or not he was right about alcohol being harmful, he was TRYING to do the right thing by this woman's baby. What an arsehole, eh? String him up! He's probably a serial embarrasser. He's done it before, and he'll no doubt do it again!