[Josy]

Originally Posted by Benjamin

He did keep following her around

He wasn't following her around when she started it back up he was eating his dinner and overheard her bitching about him, that's when he said 'what did you say there repeat that' and then it all started again.

Can see right through people like her, bitch and argue then accuse someone of harassing, bullying her then look for sympathy from others like she did when Jim said it takes two to clap and then when all else fails run off crying.

[Drew.]

Originally Posted by Josy

He wasn't following her around when she started it back up he was eating his dinner and overheard her bitching about him, that's when he said 'what did you say there repeat that' and then it all started again.

Can see right through people like her, bitch and argue then accuse someone of harassing, bullying her then look for sympathy from others like she did when Jim said it takes two to clap and then when all else fails run off crying.

great post

[Z]

Originally Posted by Josy

He wasn't following her around when she started it back up he was eating his dinner and overheard her bitching about him, that's when he said 'what did you say there repeat that' and then it all started again.

Can see right through people like her, bitch and argue then accuse someone of harassing, bullying her then look for sympathy from others like she did when Jim said it takes two to clap and then when all else fails run off crying.

Yep. Dappy was definitely following her around looking to finish the argument off with her and she kept taking it a step further and then attempting to wash her hands of it. She should have just calmly either apologised or explained herself when he was pressing her for why she brought his mum or his IQ into it instead of moaning about how he was harassing her. No self awareness - Dappy just wanted closure on it. But ignoring the argument; Dappy was in the wrong and I don't think Luisa could let that go, which is why she didn't deal with the conflict well.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Zee

Yep. Dappy was definitely following her around looking to finish the argument off with her and she kept taking it a step further and then attempting to wash her hands of it. She should have just calmly either apologised or explained herself when he was pressing her for why she brought his mum or his IQ into it instead of moaning about how he was harassing her. No self awareness - Dappy just wanted closure on it. But ignoring the argument; Dappy was in the wrong and I don't think Luisa could let that go, which is why she didn't deal with the conflict well.

Yeah, I'd empathize with her alot on this one because it's a bit of a pet peeve for me, the whole attitude of generalizing on gender and sexism/double standards. I would have been livid as well

[Z]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Yeah, I'd empathize with her alot on this one because it's a bit of a pet peeve for me, the whole attitude of generalizing on gender and sexism/double standards. I would have been livid as well

Yeah I think she was enraged by his views, he was enraged by the fact she wouldn't answer his questions, she was refusing to answer them because she thought he was an idiot and then started belittling his intelligence, he got angrier because of that, she then started bringing his mum into it so he brought her daughter into it... It just escalated because they're both clearly people who aren't used to being told that they are wrong. I think that comes across with Luisa's response to Lionel later on in the evening; and Dappy's clearly never been challenged on his views before either.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Zee

Yeah I think she was enraged by his views, he was enraged by the fact she wouldn't answer his questions, she was refusing to answer them because she thought he was an idiot and then started belittling his intelligence, he got angrier because of that, she then started bringing his mum into it so he brought her daughter into it... It just escalated because they're both clearly people who aren't used to being told that they are wrong. I think that comes across with Luisa's response to Lionel later on in the evening; and Dappy's clearly never been challenged on his views before either.

How he's not been challenged on such complete and utter sexism though is beyond me, i guess he surrounds himself with like minded idiots