Yeah I agree with all three of you; I just think that the first few posts in this thread were just sort of rubbishing them as parents when I think they're doing a very admirable thing, just perhaps not doing it in the most effective way. I don't understand why they've separated it into boy time and girl time; surely just get him a mixture of traditionally boy/girl toys/clothes/whatever and leave him to make his mind up about what he wants to play with and wear. At any rate I think it's an interesting concept and at least it's not as ridiculous as the social experiment I came across in Germany of the little boy whose parents wanted to see how long hair would grow naturally so they had this ratty horrid pig tail growing at the back of his head but the rest of it kept short