[kistar]

Originally Posted by armand.kay

But she's apparently boring

Well you could hardly say she was much fun

[Headie]

Originally Posted by Jemal

I agree with this tho.
Shes a playboy model lol.. Being looked at like a piece of meat comes with the glamour and fame of being a playboy model.

If you don't like it then don't do it.
Some girls whistand being looked at like a piece of meat because they have nothing else or any other job to go to..
But in kims case shes got a flipping law degree, if you don't want to be looked at like a piece of meat then leave it and become a lawyer.

First of all, Marlon's your favourite so obviously you're going to have a biased opinion, which makes your post invalid.

Second of all, I don't see why her job should define her as a housemate.

[Gerbil901]

I'm not gonna lie have I ever looked at women I've thought were physically attracted and started undress them with my eyes yes. But, on the same token I did everything I could to not make it overly obvious I was checking them out. I thought at first that he was just checking her out which I didn't think that big of a deal as long as he wasn't being blatantly disrespectful but some of the things he said I see why she took offense to it. She corrected him in his behavior towards her and he respected her by listening, apologizing and correcting his behavior.

[InOne]

Originally Posted by Jemal

If this is directed at me? I didnt say this lol.
But its ****ing life for god sake, open your eyes..
Shes a smart girl she should know their a dogs and thirsty guys out their that will do that especially with the job she does.

So we should just accept that men are dogs and thirsty and just deal with it? If you walked past her in the street you wouldn't know she was a playboy model. And it's not like she's been stripping in the house or anything. What you're basically saying is she's fair game because of the job she does.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Jemal

If this is directed at me? I didnt say this lol.
But its ****ing life for god sake, open your eyes..
Shes a smart girl she should know there are dogs and thirsty guys out their that will do that especially with the job she does.

..yeah you're right Jemal, some people will, both male and female but when she overhears it from someone she's sharing a space with then it's also 'real' to call them up on it as well because it's judgemental and wrong...

[Jemal]

Originally Posted by Hayden

First of all, Marlon's your favourite so obviously you're going to have a biased opinion, which makes your post invalid.

Second of all, I don't see why her job should define her as a housemate.

The logic of this post is shocking..
Because kimberly is my top favourite.. Im just not wearing tinted glasses of my fav housemate unlike other people

I said marlon got put in his place rightly, all I'm saying is that she should expect being looked at like that unfortunately

[MeMyselfAndI]

Jemal's argument is similar to blaming rape on what a woman wears [The basis of it, I'm not accusing you lol]

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Gerbil901

I'm not gonna lie have I ever looked at women I've thought were physically attracted and started undress them with my eyes yes. But, on the same token I did everything I could to not make it overly obvious I was checking them out. I thought at first that he was just checking her out which I didn't think that big of a deal as long as he wasn't being blatantly disrespectful but some of the things he said I see why she took offense to it. She corrected him in his behavior towards her and he respected her by listening, apologizing and correcting his behavior.

..yeah she was right to point it out and talk to him about it but he did seem to understand and they sorted it out...

[Niamh.]

what did he say to her?

[Gerbil901]

Truth be told I don't understand why some women don't do this more often. As a man I can definitely say that if you allow a man to disrespect you he's gonna keep doing it. But if you tell him to stop or tell him that you don't want him to do certain things more often than not we are gonna listen and stop.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Jemal

The logic of this post is shocking..
Because kimberly is my top favourite.. Im just not wearing tinted glasses of my fav housemate unlike other people

I said marlon got put in his place rightly, all I'm saying is that she should expect being looked at like that unfortunately

..I'm sure she is used to it and does expect it but maybe not by people she knows like Marlon and who she feels have judged her for who she is and not what her job is...

[Jemal]

Originally Posted by InOne

So we should just accept that men are dogs and thirsty and just deal with it? If you walked past her in the street you wouldn't know she was a playboy model. And it's not like she's been stripping in the house or anything. What you're basically saying is she's fair game because of the job she does.

unfortunately its apart of life InOne, we have to come to accept it.
Unless we have too kill all the thirsty guys in the world which wont happen lol

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

what did he say to her?

Alot of umming and ahhing and 100 per cent it wont happen again he asked her to smile she said no, then she asked for a hug naaaww

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

what did he say to her?

Youtube video

[DrunkerThanMoses]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

what did he say to her?

"Spread your legs" while she was exercising

[Jemal]

Originally Posted by MeMyselfAndI

Jemal's argument is similar to blaming rape on what a woman wears [The basis of it, I'm not accusing you lol]

Wow.. You got me all wrong jack ffs.
Just forget it.

[InOne]

Originally Posted by Jemal

unfortunately its apart of life InOne, we have to come to accept it.
Unless we have too kill all the thirsty guys in the world which wont happen lol

Well, at least we're seeing one fierce lady called Kimberly who's not taking any of that nonsense

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Jemal

unfortunately its apart of life InOne, we have to come to accept it.
Unless we have too kill all the thirsty guys in the world which wont happen lol

..they do have to keep their 'thirst' a bit more respectful when they're sharing a house with someone though and it doesn't bode that well for his character that he judges her for what she does even after he's got to know her as a person and even said that he found her intriguing...

[Jemal]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..I'm sure she is used to it and does expect it but maybe not by people she knows like Marlon and who she feels have judged her for who she is and not what her job is...

Ive said marlon got rightly put in his place.
Im just saying girls being looked like meat is unfortunately part of life.
Im not sayin its right before people start world war 3 on me and claim i think its right to tell a girl to bend over or spread your legs

[Gerbil901]

That being said I don't think that a woman's job should determine how she should be treated.

But on the same token if a woman goes out dressed like a slut or a ***** then don't be shocked if the reaction that you get from men isn't the reaction you wanted. Men are going to treat you the way you present yourself. I know it's not nice but it's the truth.

[InOne]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..they do have to keep their 'thirst' a bit more respectful when they're sharing a house with someone though and it doesn't bode that well for his character that he judges her for what she does even after he's got to know her as a person and even said that he found her intriguing...

He should be honoured Kimberly gave him the time of day I love how she gave him a few looks of death and he became a shy little schoolboy lol

[MeMyselfAndI]

Originally Posted by Jemal

Wow.. You got me all wrong jack ffs.
Just forget it.

No, I'm just saying that
"She should expect it because of her job"
& "She should expect it, look at what shes wearing"

Are very similar theories, I'm not accusing you

[Me. I Am Salman]

Originally Posted by Jemal

I agree with this tho.
Shes a playboy model lol.. Being looked at like a piece of meat comes with the glamour and fame of being a playboy model.

If you don't like it then don't do it.
Some girls whistand being looked at like a piece of meat because they have nothing else or any other job to go to..
But in kims case shes got a flipping law degree, if you don't want to be looked at like a piece of meat then leave it and become a lawyer.

tbf jemal's kinda right, it's a bit hypocritical if you're not comfortable with people looking at you sexually why on earth would you want to be a playboy model?

[newsbb]

queenberly

[InOne]

Originally Posted by Me. I Am Salman

tbf jemal's kinda right, it's a bit hypocritical if you're not comfortable with people looking at you sexually why would you be a playboy model?

They were making comments too did you not watch the video?