[Forgetmenot]

Originally Posted by Babschap

She is so unaware of her own behaviour, she just can't accept that she is a bully.

She is NOT A BULLY FULL STOP, FOR GOODNESS SAKE. She has said she knows she can be a bitch. And as to people saying she does not listen, that too is utter nonce nice.she also has been on the longest most honest journey in there!

[mizzmee]

Originally Posted by Forgetmenot

She is NOT A BULLY FULL STOP, FOR GOODNESS SAKE. She has said she knows she can be a bitch. And as to people saying she does not listen, that too is utter nonce nice.she also has been on the longest most honest journey in there!

There's a difference between being a bitch and being aggressive.
There is also a difference between saying you acknowledge your poor behaviour and actually doing that. She constantly says she is nasty or a bitch and laughs. That's because it has become a joke to her. But once an accusation against her character is harsher or comes without a laugh she refuses to acknowledge that.
She refuses to try and break down what other's say and to see beyond the initial phrasing yet she demands people do that for her. She wants to be seen as misunderstood as she believes she is yet she refuses to see that in anyone else. She chooses to hear only negative things and BB are partially to blame.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by mizzmee

There's a difference between being a bitch and being aggressive.
There is also a difference between saying you acknowledge your poor behaviour and actually doing that. She constantly says she is nasty or a bitch and laughs. That's because it has become a joke to her. But once an accusation against her character is harsher or comes without a laugh she refuses to acknowledge that.
She refuses to try and break down what other's say and to see beyond the initial phrasing yet she demands people do that for her. She wants to be seen as misunderstood as she believes she is yet she refuses to see that in anyone else. She chooses to hear only negative things and BB are partially to blame.

But she's "upfront and honest" though so alls ok, eh?

[mizzmee]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

But she's "upfront and honest" though so alls ok, eh?

No, I am totally opposed to Helen's behaviour and believe the up front and honest crap is a great excuse to bully and intimidate.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by mizzmee

No, I am totally opposed to Helen's behaviour and believe the up front and honest crap is a great excuse to bully and intimidate.

I was being sarcastic

[mizzmee]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

I was being sarcastic

Sorry!!!!