[lostalex]

I've dated a closeted guy before, toy soldier is right, it's not fun. It's a total mind****. It makes you feel like he's ashamed of you, and that he's ashamed of himself. It's a form of slavery. You don't know if you are allowed to touch him or hold his hand or talk about him or talk to his friends. It's like those stories you hear about women being locked in their house with the windows boarded up and totally cut off from the outside world. The closeted guy has all the power over what you can and cannot say, and to whom, and at what time and where you are allowed to show him affection.

Being in a relationship with a closeted person is a form of abuse imho.