[the truth]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..not always, no...not when it's a young child who is doing the bullying because there will be reasons why they are doing it and that would be the absolute worst thing that you could do...it's more helping them to understand how their actions and words have affected someone else and how they've made them feel../learning empathy...

you can do that if you want, verballytelling them they are wrong calmly and assuredly in front of all their mates is the best way to show all those around them too that bullying is idiotic. my concern is for the bullied and those who support bullying. it must be stopped. you can work on the bullies mommy issues in private if you so wish. the bullies are not my concern

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by the truth

you can do that if you want, verballytelling them they are wrong calmly and assuredly in front of all their mates is the best way to show all those around them too that bullying is idiotic. my concern is for the bullied and those who support bullying. it must be stopped. you can work on the bullies mommy issues in private if you so wish. the bullies are not my concern

..they're not 'mommy issues'..many diagnosed mental disorders in children will produce 'bully behaviour' because of their frustrations in their inability to understand the way that other children do..that frustration will often lead to anger issues and bullying type behaviour...it's important that these things are recognised and addressed and a child be helped so that, that bullying behaviour stops...not just for those subjected to their bullying but for themselves as well...so that they can learn to 'control'...children on the autistic spectrum and with OCD especially, often become 'fixated' on another child and with that fixation will bully...you yourself have often expressed concerns about mental disorders and the lack of understanding there and some bullying does require some understanding to be able to help stop it...and also for children/'child bullies' to be helped with something that they can't actually help themselves with...

[the truth]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..they're not 'mommy issues'..many diagnosed mental disorders in children will produce 'bully behaviour' because of their frustrations in their inability to understand the way that other children do..that frustration will often lead to anger issues and bullying type behaviour...it's important that these things are recognised and addressed and a child be helped so that, that bullying behaviour stops...not just for those subjected to their bullying but for themselves as well...so that they can learn to 'control'...children on the autistic spectrum and with OCD especially, often become 'fixated' on another child and with that fixation will bully...you yourself have often expressed concerns about mental disorders and the lack of understanding there and some bullying does require some understanding to be able to help stop it...and also for children/'child bullies' to be helped with something that they can't actually help themselves with...

and? the main concern is to protect people against these vile bullies. get these bullies off the streets out of the schools and lock them away with shrinks until they are 100% safe to be put back into society. the first and last care is for the public and the bullied, the bullies themselves are the last priority on the list

[Northern Monkey]

Originally Posted by the truth

you can do that if you want, verballytelling them they are wrong calmly and assuredly in front of all their mates is the best way to show all those around them too that bullying is idiotic. my concern is for the bullied and those who support bullying. it must be stopped. you can work on the bullies mommy issues in private if you so wish. the bullies are not my concern

I usually find that a good smack in the mouth usually does the trick.

[kirklancaster]

The easiest way for a short person to make him/herself appear taller is to shove another person into quicksand.

The only way for the victim to stop being pushed down into the quicksand, is to break the arms of the bastard who's doing the pushing down.

And if the victim isn't physically able to break those arms - a baseball bat swung from behind one dark night will get the job done fine.

[the truth]

Originally Posted by kirklancaster

The easiest way for a short person to make him/herself appear taller is to shove another person into quicksand.

The only way for the victim to stop being pushed down into the quicksand, is to break the arms of the bastard who's doing the pushing down.

And if the victim isn't physically able to break those arms - a baseball bat swung from behind one dark night will get the job done fine.

even if he or she is bigger show them if they hurt you, you will hurt them, whether its morally physically financially, socially , psychologically etc etc they must be hurt back before they stop. the best route is simply to go to the head teacher imo and your parents, DONT SUFFER IN SILENCE