[Stormy]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

too angry with her b/f? ummmm why on Earth would she be angry with him?

ETA : She really shouldn't be relying on Jeremy or anyone else for that matter to grow up

Those that don't like Stephanie like to imagine she's a horrible person and has no possible reason to be angry with Sam other than to justify her affair with Jeremy. Those that love Stephanie imagine that Sam is a total A-hole and must have done/said some horrible things that justifies her affair with Jeremy.

I suspect the truth is in the middle somewhere.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Stormy

Those that don't like Stephanie like to imagine she's a horrible person and has no possible reason to be angry with Sam other than to justify her affair with Jeremy. Those that love Stephanie imagine that Sam is a total A-hole and must have done/said some horrible things that justifies her affair with Jeremy.



I suspect the truth is in the middle somewhere.

But she suddenly became "angry" with him when she decided to cheat on him on tv before that she was ready to marry him and was "angry" at people who reminded her she already had a b/f

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

But she suddenly became "angry" with him when she decided to cheat on him on tv before that she was ready to marry him and was "angry" at people who reminded her she already had a b/f

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

But she suddenly became "angry" with him when she decided to cheat on him on tv before that she was ready to marry him and was "angry" at people who reminded her she already had a b/f

She is a massive contradiction all the time,this interview today was just likely one in sadly a possible long line of interviews with her to let her feed on the new story and account she now gives as to her relationship with Sam.

I simply would not give her air time on TV.

[Stormy]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

But she suddenly became "angry" with him when she decided to cheat on him on tv before that she was ready to marry him and was "angry" at people who reminded her she already had a b/f

We don't know her and Sam's personal relationship. We just know Stephanie's viewpoint of it. Then we saw how juvenile and immature Stephanie is which puts that viewpoint in doubt. Sam never said a word, although his actions (taking advantage of the situation with PA's) spoke very loudly. He doesn't really seem to be bothered by the breakup one bit.

We don't know if Sam treated her like a princess or like a piece of dirt. Did he have multiple affairs or no? We only ever saw is one side. We don't truly know both sides so, a lot of us fill in the blanks with and make assumptions based on our bias views.

Love Stephanie = Sam deserved it, he treated her like dirt and slept around.
Hate Stephanie = Poor Sam, she mugged him on on live TV, he must be gutted.

I'm suggesting that the reality is that they are both to blame and to just leave it at that. No need to pick sides, they were dating and now they're not. This is not a divorce, there are no children to worry about.

[Maru]

Originally Posted by Stormy

We don't know her and Sam's personal relationship. We just know Stephanie's viewpoint of it. Then we saw how juvenile and immature Stephanie is which puts that viewpoint in doubt. Sam never said a word, although his actions (taking advantage of the situation with PA's) spoke very loudly. He doesn't really seem to be bothered by the breakup one bit.

We don't know if Sam treated her like a princess or like a piece of dirt. Did he have multiple affairs or no? We only ever saw is one side. We don't truly know both sides so, a lot of us fill in the blanks with and make assumptions based on our bias views.

Love Stephanie = Sam deserved it, he treated her like dirt and slept around.
Hate Stephanie = Poor Sam, she mugged him on on live TV, he must be gutted.

I'm suggesting that the reality is that they are both to blame and to just leave it at that. No need to pick sides, they were dating and now they're not. This is not a divorce, there are no children to worry about.

Love this post. Stephanie clearly has some emotional issues. She jumps from one intense relationship to another and yet still spends a lot of time speaking in absolutes. Sam can't be the only one who kept her unhappy in their previous relationship. She may have no business being in a relationship given her history, but I understand wanting to pursue a potentially strong connection with someone... just don't know if a TV show is the healthiest way in which to start a new chapter in life.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Stormy

We don't know her and Sam's personal relationship. We just know Stephanie's viewpoint of it. Then we saw how juvenile and immature Stephanie is which puts that viewpoint in doubt. Sam never said a word, although his actions (taking advantage of the situation with PA's) spoke very loudly. He doesn't really seem to be bothered by the breakup one bit.

We don't know if Sam treated her like a princess or like a piece of dirt. Did he have multiple affairs or no? We only ever saw is one side. We don't truly know both sides so, a lot of us fill in the blanks with and make assumptions based on our bias views.

Love Stephanie = Sam deserved it, he treated her like dirt and slept around.
Hate Stephanie = Poor Sam, she mugged him on on live TV, he must be gutted.

I'm suggesting that the reality is that they are both to blame and to just leave it at that. No need to pick sides, they were dating and now they're not. This is not a divorce, there are no children to worry about.

I have no opinion on Sam really, he probably is a bit of a dick but what I will say is he could have milked it more by speaking out about it when she was in the house but he didn't which is much more dignified imo

You are suggesting that they are both to blame.........for her cheating on him on national TV and then dumping him for Jeremy on national TV? Nope, I'm sorry but he's not, that blames lies solely on her shoulders. Was he a s**t b/f? I don't know. Did he cheat on her before? maybe and if he did then he is to blame for that and I'm sure he accepted responsibility for that and didn't try to blame Stef..........

[Stormy]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

I have no opinion on Sam really, he probably is a bit of a dick but what I will say is he could have milked it more by speaking out about it when she was in the house but he didn't which is much more dignified imo

You are suggesting that they are both to blame.........for her cheating on him on national TV and then dumping him for Jeremy on national TV? Nope, I'm sorry but he's not, that blames lies solely on her shoulders. Was he a s**t b/f? I don't know. Did he cheat on her before? maybe and if he did then he is to blame for that and I'm sure he accepted responsibility for that and didn't try to blame Stef..........

You prove my point Niamh. You absolutely seem to abhor her and therefore will give her no quarter....not one.

That is the opposite of those that seem to love her and therefore will give her all the excuses and justifications for doing what she did.

I am suggesting a middle ground...This was a case of bad judgement but not the crime of the century, especially when the victim does not appear to be faultless (in the relationship) and the victim is, also, happily cashing in on the fact that she did it on national TV.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Stormy

You prove my point Niamh. You absolutely seem to abhor her and therefore will give her no quarter....not one.

That is the opposite of those that seem to love her and therefore will give her all the excuses and justifications for doing what she did.

I am suggesting a middle ground...This was a case of bad judgement but not the crime of the century, especially when the victim does not appear to be faultless (in the relationship) and the victim is, also, happily cashing in on the fact that she did it on national TV.

Well no I haven't proven your point at all. I'm talking about her action of cheating on him with Jeremy, that is her fault no matter what way you look at it. If those rumours about him are true then he is to blame solely for when he cheated on her.......