[Christmas Dynasnow]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Getting raped is a lesson? :/

yes its one of the dangers, as is asphyxiating

But a woman has to be extra careful

[ChristmasNeeve]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

yes its one of the dangers, as is asphyxiating

But a woman has to be extra careful

sounds like victim blaming to me

[Christmas Dynasnow]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

sounds like victim blaming to me

No its the reality of life

get paralytic outdoors on your own and bad things can and will happen

[ChristmasNeeve]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

No its the reality of life

get paralytic outdoors on your own and bad things can and will happen

So the guy wasn't responsible for raping her then, she was responsible for giving him the opportunity? I don't get what you're saying here at all, are you saying he deserved the lighter sentence because she was drunk?

[Christmas Dynasnow]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

So the guy wasn't responsible for raping her then, she was responsible for giving him the opportunity? I don't get what you're saying here at all, are you saying he deserved the lighter sentence because she was drunk?

I am saying neither

[ChristmasNeeve]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

I am saying neither

what are you saying then?

[Northern Monkey]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

No its the reality of life

get paralytic outdoors on your own and bad things can and will happen

I get your point.We should all take personal responsibility for our own safety.
However that does'nt diminish the responsibility of the person who committed the crime.They have a responsibility to not commit crimes too.
So really the responsibility lies with both parties realistically.In a perfect world we would be able to get as pissed as we like or let our kids play out unsupervised without worry of devastating things happening.Unfortunately it's not a perfect world.
So in short it is stupid to get so pissed you end up unconscious but that doesn't take away any responsibility from the rapist who should face the full wrath of the law.