[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Ive not seen anyone else with a personality in there for him to suppress

Come in Joseph Heller we've got a 'Catch 22'...

I LOVE you Chuff.

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by Lostie!

Thanks Lostie.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by kirklancaster

Come in Joseph Heller we've got a 'Catch 22'...

I LOVE you Chuff.

Well honestly Kirk what a set of boring twats they are this series part from Bear ..Ive never seen a series like it

[Ammi]

..I honestly think Kirk that he's supressing himself and his own balance just as much as he is with others with his persistent and continuous/constant feeling that his attention will come from 'spoiling everything' and winding everyone up as much as he can...I've noticed for the last few shows that he sometimes 'talks baby'...adopts a child-like voice..?...that's something that I've never really seen a guy do before, it's something that is more associated with females with those who do it...(I'm not sure what the psychology....)..but I really do think that the purposeful stress that he's putting on others and the strain etc is showing on himself because he's not being his true self either, he's playing a character and trying to sustain that character for 24 hours a day, day in and day out etc...

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..I honestly think Kirk that he's supressing himself and his own balance just as much as he is with others with his persistent and continuous/constant feeling that his attention will come from 'spoiling everything' and winding everyone up as much as he can...I've noticed for the last few shows that he sometimes 'talks baby'...adopts a child-like voice..?...that's something that I've never really seen a guy do before, it's something that is more associated with females with those who do it...(I'm not sure what the psychology....)..but I really do think that the purposeful stress that he's putting on others and the strain etc is showing on himself because he's not being his true self either, he's playing a character and trying to sustain that character for 24 hours a day, day in and day out etc...

I agree Ammi. His behaviour is getting increasingly more 'forced' and that he seems to be 'running out of ideas' as to what 'shocking' stunt to pull next, and the strain of that - as you rightly say - does seem to be impacting upon himself.

I too have noticed his voice. He seems to be struggling NOT to fully morph into Joe Pasquale. If only the boorish prick would 'Have An Accident'.

Great to see you back posting Ammi, and I hope that Birthday was a stunner.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by kirklancaster

I agree Ammi. His behaviour is getting increasingly more 'forced' and that he seems to be 'running out of ideas' as to what 'shocking' stunt to pull next, and the strain of that - as you rightly say - does seem to be impacting upon himself.

I too have noticed his voice. He seems to be struggling NOT to fully morph into Joe Pasquale. If only the boorish prick would 'Have An Accident'.

Great to see you back posting Ammi, and I hope that Birthday was a stunner.

....awww, thank you Kirk....Mr A has some time away from work so we went away for a few days and I had a lovely birthday with la famille.....


...hmmm, this is it really..I just don't believe that he's being natural or being himself with what he's doing so constantly, I think that 'winding up' is just one element of him but he's pushing it and has pushed it to such limits that the strain is also showing on him..this is also why this isn't in any way a 'normal house' and housemate's reactions and actions can't be compared to previous houses because the stress factor hasn't been comparable to just 'living in a confined environment with those we have nothing in common with'...one of the big things for me with the celebrity one is seeing the egos etc and that hasn't nearly come into play so much this series because it's all been reactionary behaviour to bad behaviour and etc etc....last night with the Year Book thing and Aubrey asking Bear why he had ruined it..?...and his reply of 'just because' or something..?...so much like a child who doesn't understand any thought process/reasons etc for destrution and that's what it's all become for him as well now..he's just lost his way and has no idea anymore because he's lost or supressed himself also..../it was quite sad really, hearing him say that....

[MrWong]

Dawn French ‏@Dawn_French 1m1 minute ago
Am beyond FURIOUS that 'Bear' has hijacked my fave telly #CBBUK for his own idiotic showing off purposes.#boringtwot

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by MrWong

Dawn French ‏@Dawn_French 1m1 minute ago
Am beyond FURIOUS that 'Bear' has hijacked my fave telly #CBBUK for his own idiotic showing off purposes.#boringtwot

I love Dawn.

[Garfie]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..I honestly think Kirk that he's supressing himself and his own balance just as much as he is with others with his persistent and continuous/constant feeling that his attention will come from 'spoiling everything' and winding everyone up as much as he can...I've noticed for the last few shows that he sometimes 'talks baby'...adopts a child-like voice..?...that's something that I've never really seen a guy do before, it's something that is more associated with females with those who do it...(I'm not sure what the psychology....)..but I really do think that the purposeful stress that he's putting on others and the strain etc is showing on himself because he's not being his true self either, he's playing a character and trying to sustain that character for 24 hours a day, day in and day out etc...

He seems stuck in child mode in so many ways, and so much of his behaviour suggests that. The baby talk/voice is really strange. He did mention something one night about being his Mum's favourite- maybe he reverts to child mode to get what he wants or to in attempt to get away with unacceptable behaviour, something he learnt as a child?

There is a lot about Bear that is strange in a man of 26.

[Vanessa]

he's just being himself and actually is getting on well with everyone. But he likes to wind people up, no doubt