[Kazanne]

I like Angelina,fabulous woman,I like Brad too,it's a shame when a marriage breaks down it happens,I don't know why the patting on the back for Aniston,she's no angel herself,was he supposed to stay with her just because of who she is? it didn't work ,otherwise he wouldn't have strayed,it happens,still prefer Angelina anyway,I'm sure they will work something out for their kids.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

I like Angelina,fabulous woman,I like Brad too,it's a shame when a marriage breaks down it happens,I don't know why the patting on the back for Aniston,she's no angel herself,was he supposed to stay with her just because of who she is? it didn't work ,otherwise he wouldn't have strayed,it happens,still prefer Angelina anyway,I'm sure they will work something out for their kids.

Why what has she done?

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Why what has she done?

I have no idea but she's no angel is she ? none of us are,I do know her and her mother were estranged,but I suppose that was all her mothers fault as it seems Aniston can do no wrong there was a reason Brad strayed,IF he had been totally happy he would have stayed put,his marriage was rocky before Angelina arrived by all accounts,none of us know who was at fault so it seems quite unfair to blame Angelina in all this plus they have children who are innocent in this,if she is divorcing him due to his parenting ,surely she is being a good parent.How do we know the Aniston wasn't a complete cow to him? lets just see how long her marriage lasts

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

I have no idea but she's no angel is she ? none of us are,I do know her and her mother were estranged,but I suppose that was all her mothers fault as it seems Aniston can do no wrong there was a reason Brad strayed,IF he had been totally happy he would have stayed put,his marriage was rocky before Angelina arrived by all accounts,none of us know who was at fault so it seems quite unfair to blame Angelina in all this plus they have children who are innocent in this,if she is divorcing him due to his parenting ,surely she is being a good parent.How do we know the Aniston wasn't a complete cow to him? lets just see how long her marriage lasts

Terrible view. Basically its her fault for not doing what he wished :S People cheat as they are selfish bastards who don't care about anyone but themselves. Not because of anything done to them...if it was something bad done to him, leaving her then getting with someone else is the right thing to do. No excuse for cheating really.

I agree that Angelina shouldn't be blamed in this though, its all him. Not Jennifers fault he cheated, even if she was a 'complete cow to him' which I doubt.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Terrible view. Basically its her fault for not doing what he wished :S People cheat as they are selfish bastards who don't care about anyone but themselves. Not because of anything done to them...if it was something bad done to him, leaving her then getting with someone else is the right thing to do. No excuse for cheating really.

I agree that Angelina shouldn't be blamed in this though, its all him. Not Jennifers fault he cheated, even if she was a 'complete cow to him' which I doubt.

I didn't say she WAS a complete cow to him,I said she COULD have been,none of us know,and I didn't say it was ALL her fault all I am saying is if people are happy together they don't cheat do they? From what we are told their marriage was rocky months before he got with Angelina,I just find the gloating that somehow Jennifer has payback for what he did distasteful,none of us are sure what has gone on,people are painting Jennifer as totally innocent in it all,she maybe but that is not a certainty is it,so that's my view whether it's terrible or not, **** happens,no one person should take all the blame as they say it takes two to tango,I don't think Angelina is a marriage breaker at all ,he fell out of love with Aniston and fell in love with Angelina,that might be naughty of him,but it happens.

[Ammi]

..atm it's Brad who's looking pretty bad...he didn't end his marriage to Jennifer properly when he met Angelina and now Angelina is making it clear that she doesn't want him to have joint custody of the children, so pretty damning there of his character...


..I read this/something Jennifer said in the past in an interview...

Jen claims to hold no grudges and is forgiving "probably to a fault. There are people in my life that are like, 'How do you even talk to that guy?' But what's the point of holding on to [anger]? That's so toxic. We're human beings. Human beings make mistakes. Human beings are not perfect. And by not forgiving someone, it's not allowing human beings to evolve and become better people."






...it doesn't really sound like someone who holds any blame herself for the breakup of her marriage and what Brad did..but I think as hard as it was for her and as painful as it was because of how public it all was...it was probably the best thing because she's been able to move on and find happiness/is still the same lovely person etc with a great mind-set...and she didn't have to consider children in the break-up....

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..atm it's Brad who's looking pretty bad...he didn't end his marriage to Jennifer properly when he met Angelina and now Angelina is making it clear that she doesn't want him to have joint custody of the children, so pretty damning there of his character...


..I read this/something Jennifer said in the past in an interview...

Jen claims to hold no grudges and is forgiving "probably to a fault. There are people in my life that are like, 'How do you even talk to that guy?' But what's the point of holding on to [anger]? That's so toxic. We're human beings. Human beings make mistakes. Human beings are not perfect. And by not forgiving someone, it's not allowing human beings to evolve and become better people."






...it doesn't really sound like someone who holds any blame herself for the breakup of her marriage and what Brad did..but I think as hard as it was for her and as painful as it was because of how public it all was...it was probably the best thing because she's been able to move on and find happiness/is still the same lovely person etc with a great mind-set...and she didn't have to consider children in the break-up....

That's nice if true Ammi,but how can we really know as I read today she has said something about karma,but that could be tosh too,so I guess it comes down to what we want to believe.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

I have no idea but she's no angel is she ? none of us are,I do know her and her mother were estranged,but I suppose that was all her mothers fault as it seems Aniston can do no wrong there was a reason Brad strayed,IF he had been totally happy he would have stayed put,his marriage was rocky before Angelina arrived by all accounts,none of us know who was at fault so it seems quite unfair to blame Angelina in all this plus they have children who are innocent in this,if she is divorcing him due to his parenting ,surely she is being a good parent.How do we know the Aniston wasn't a complete cow to him? lets just see how long her marriage lasts

Not unlike Angelina and her dad But making excuses like "well she might have been a cow and deserved her husband to cheat on her" is not cool

[Ammi]

..I don't feel that anyone is taking joy either...the pics/memes type stuff are all going round the internet and was bound to happen and infer that Jen would be smug etc...it's just jokey stuff that I don't think any of us would think for one moment wouldn't happen with this type of news and the circumstances of them getting together...but that doesn't mean that people haven't got empathy as well with certain aspects of it but can still post jokey things...I'm sure many people on here and in the thread know only too personally how emotionally painful this would be on the children....and yes, they can still joke and it's not offensive...(imo..)....

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..I don't feel that anyone is taking joy either...the pics/memes type stuff are all going round the internet and was bound to happen and infer that Jen would be smug etc...it's just jokey stuff that I don't think any of us would think for one moment wouldn't happen with this type of news and the circumstances of them getting together...but that doesn't mean that people haven't got empathy as well with certain aspects of it but can still post jokey things...I'm sure many people on here and in the thread know only too personally how emotionally painful this would be on the children....and yes, they can still joke and it's not offensive...(imo..)....

There seems to be an unhealthy amount of glee about it in some quarters whether it is offensive or not is subjective