[Ammi]

Originally Posted by TomC

Sooooo...

i went home for the week last week - by the end I'd realized that my 'obsession' with him had been very unhealthy. I felt much better about it when I returned to uni - open to other things, and actually, was ready to throw this guy if he didn't show immediate interest the next time I tried.

So, today I tried to organize a meet up - he gave a kind of flaky response, so I told him (because at this point I was pretty much done with it anyway) that he needs to be more honest with people. He didn't take this well! He said I was being entitled, and that I needed to calm down and that there was now no chance of a second date after a bit of a hostile exchange.

Whilst this was for the best (and I am so glad he said this to me now, rather than 10 days ago or so when it would really have hurt my feelings), it's a shame the chapter is well and truly over, and tbh what he said wasn't the nicest.

...hmmmm, but the chapter was so worth while in experiencing Tom...(I know it might not feel that way atm.....)..but you had to know because of your attraction to him, this is something that you had to explore and you have...if he's not looking for any type of relationship then he just isn't the person for you and as you say.../that's something that's good to know now and much easier for you to close the door on but a closed door on someone is really an open door for someone who will be more who you're looking for...when something is over though Tom...what that really means is that it's all open for something to begin.../something right to begin......