[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Brillopad

Yes, but the point I was making was that there were other things that contributed to their attractiveness - not boob size.

So as long as their face is conventionally attractive they should be content, to hell with how they feel about any other aspect of themselves?

Ugly flat chested women are really screwed then :/

[Brillopad]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

So as long as their face is conventionally attractive they should be content, to hell with how they feel about any other aspect of themselves?

Ugly flat chested women are really screwed then :/

I never said anything about faces. I was talking about overall attractiveness such as how they carry themselves i.e. self-confidence, femininity, intelligence. Boobs are not the issue and neither are faces. You are the one who mentioned faces, not me. You are being deliberately obtuse.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Brillopad

I never said anything about faces. I was talking about overall attractiveness such as how they carry themselves i.e. self-confidence, femininity, intelligence. Boobs are not the issue and neither are faces. You are the one who mentioned faces, not me. You are being deliberately obtuse.

You can't see intelligence though can you?...

'I have seen many stunningly attractive, feminine flat-chested women and many less attractive large breasted women.'
I'm not being obtuse... you are the one fudging the issue here.

[Brillopad]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

You can't see intelligence though can you?...

'I have seen many stunningly attractive, feminine flat-chested women and many less attractive large breasted women.'
I'm not being obtuse... you are the one fudging the issue here.

You can't get a pretty good idea of someone's intelligence by the way they carry themselves or their conversation. Really!

You are really missing the point as that sentence is simply saying that flat chested women can be stunning and large chested women unattractive - there are other factors that make the difference - not chest size.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Brillopad

You can't get a pretty good idea of someone's intelligence by the way they carry themselves or their conversation. Really!

You are really missing the point as that sentence is simply saying that flat chested women can be stunning and large chested women unattractive - there are other factors that make the difference - not chest size.

So now you've had a good convo with all these women prior to your judgement?...ok, I think we'll leave that there.

I n my opinion you are missing the point by presuming what other people think is a factor at all, it's how these women feel about themselves that's the issue, what you or I or anyone else feels is irrelevant.

[Brillopad]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

So now you've had a good convo with all these women prior to your judgement?...ok, I think we'll leave that there.

I n my opinion you are missing the point by presuming what other people think is a factor at all, it's how these women feel about themselves that's the issue, what you or I or anyone else feels is irrelevant.

It's not irrelevant when a certain element of society i.e. The media pressurise women to look a certain way to be 'attractive'. People would have to be deaf, dumb and blind not to see the connection.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Brillopad

It's not irrelevant when a certain element of society i.e. The media pressurise women to look a certain way to be 'attractive'. People would have to be deaf, dumb and blind not to see the connection.

Bit like being 'feminine' or 'intelligent' to be considered attractive, if you are neither are you any less of a woman? no.
When women stop putting pressure on each other the media might catch up.

[the truth]

proper natural dd's flop sideways and change shape quite majestically....they dance on your fingertips like jello at springtime

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by the truth

proper natural dd's flop sideways and change shape quite majestically....they dance on your fingertips like jello at springtime

Thats very poetic

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by the truth

proper natural dd's flop sideways and change shape quite majestically....they dance on your fingertips like jello at springtime

Try natural FFs. I call mine armpit warmers when I lay on my back

My husband actually amuses himself for ages just poking them and watching

[Brillopad]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Try natural FFs. I call mine armpit warmers when I lay on my back

My husband actually amuseds himself for ages just poking them and watching

[jennyjuniper]

Originally Posted by the truth

These are often supplied on the nhs

is this right? is it wrong or ok as it helps her career
or is it all the daily mails fault

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/arti...gar-daddy.html

No it's totally wrong. When people have to wait for treatment for serious illnesses, breast enhancement should be way down the list of priorities. In fact it shouldn't even be considered at all.

[Withano]

I havent read the article. Had a long day and cba for daily mail. In my experience, boob jobs have only been giving to those who are suffering with depressive tendencies as a direct result of their boobs. And this is fine to do in my opinion.

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Brillopad

Over-sized, top-heavy boobs are ugly.

Anyone who judges a woman's attractiveness purely on the size of her mammary glands is surely not worth worrying about. .

I feel like you just must wander about walking into walls

[Brillopad]

Originally Posted by Withano

I feel like you just must wander about walking into walls

I feel you could identify with that.

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Brillopad

I feel you could identify with that.

I know you are but what am I
Good one

[the truth]

Originally Posted by Withano

I know you are but what am I
Good one

that doesnt make sense

[Brillopad]

Originally Posted by the truth

that doesnt make sense

He rarely makes much sense.

[Livia]

You know a better way to enhance your career and also have some longevity in it? Get some qualifications. And you will have to pay for them... in the same way that if you want comedy tits, pay for them yourself. And if you're depressed over them, get some talking therapy.

Of course, like everyone I imagine, I am in favour of breast reconstruction following cancer or other illness or injury.

[Cherie]

I think this might have happened in the past but as stretched as the NHS is now (pardon the pun ) I doubt it happens very often.

Women have managed to live for centuries with different sized breasts and bottoms. If you really do need to change your appearance pay for it yourself unless as above its after an illness or accident etc.

[the truth]

there are finite resources in the nhs.....for every £5000 spent on a plastic breast, thats £5000 less available to spend on saving lives.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by the truth

there are finite resources in the nhs.....for every £5000 spent on a plastic breast, thats £5000 less available to spend on saving lives.

what is your stance on breast reconstruction after a mastectomy?

[the truth]

Originally Posted by Cherie

what is your stance on breast reconstruction after a mastectomy?

hmmm thats a tougher call...If it is a relatively small number of people maybe its affordable....put simply people who are seriously ill and need to treatment to get better are top priority ....we have to respect public money and realise every pound and penny has the potential to save or lose a life

[iloveaisleyne]

If men are so offended by women resorting to breast augmentation then maybe they should stop belittling those with flat chests...

[Brillopad]

Originally Posted by iloveaisleyne

If men are so offended by women resorting to breast augmentation then maybe they should stop belittling those with flat chests...

I totally agree with that - but I also feel women should take some responsibility in this. Some women are so needy and spend their whole time trying to be what they think men want them to be. They usually get it wrong.

The type of men who judge women on that are not likely to be that interesting and trying to please men all the time smacks of desperation which puts them off.

Women should just be themselves, be confident and just take care of themselves. There is more to life in my opinion.