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Old 06-06-2017, 06:06 PM #126
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He was kidding around with his friend. I get that it indirectly effects / offends others but it's not like he was being malicious. I don't like the word either though and I'm not gay so I imagine it's worse to hear for a gay person in particular.

However, Tom must not be too bad of a person if this inappropriate joking with his friend is the worst thing people could find from probably searching years back on his social media.
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What if he had written a tweet calling someone 'a posh idiot' would that be labelled 'hate speech' or 'upper-class-ophobic'?

What if he had targeted an individual with a big nose and called them 'concorde face', would that be considered 'hate speech' or 'body-phobic'?

Why is it NOT OK to make rude comments or use rude words about certain groups within society, while at the same time it's totally ok to say rude things about other groups or individuals?

Why is it ok for us all to say hateful things about INDIVIDUAL HMs and attack them on a very personal level, while at the same time we can't say anything bad about their race/gender/sexuality etc?

These forums are full of so-called 'hate speech' towards individual HMs! So is every episode of BBBOTS. So is every newspaper. It's offensive sometimes yes, but no one expects them to stop it.

The crowd last night were full of 'hate speech', quickly judging HMs based on their accent/beliefs etc and then really booing them, shouting 'OFF OFF OFF OFF' like a pack of rabid dogs - is that not 'hate speech'?


My point is: You can't have it both ways.

If you want to be fair and intellectually consistent then you can't call it 'phobia' and 'hate speech' one minute (when it refers to certain beliefs/genders/sexuality/races etc) while at the same time pull someone apart on a really personal level with the exact same kind of 'hate speech' and think that's OK !

(in fact the comments made about HMs on a personal level on BB forums and on BBBOTS are usually FAR worse than some old off-hand tweet like Tom's)

Either you ban all 'hate speech' which means no more rude comments about ANYONE EVER regardless of their race/gender/sexuality/background etc (which would be a pretty boring, over-controlled world to live in) or you allow people to say what they like and just deal with it whether you like it or not.

You can't pick and choose.

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What if he had written a tweet calling someone 'a posh idiot' would that be labelled 'hate speech' or 'upper-class-ophobic'?

What if he had targeted an individual with a big nose and called them 'concorde face', would that be considered 'hate speech' or 'nose-ophobic'?

Why is it NOT OK to make rude comments or use rude words about certain groups within society, while at the same time it's totally ok to say rude things about other groups or individuals?

Why is it ok for us all to say hateful things about INDIVIDUAL HMs and attack them on a very personal level, while at the same time we can't say anything bad about their race/gender/background etc?

These forums are full of so-called 'hate speech' towards individual HMs. So is every episode of BBBOTS. So is every newspaper. It's offensive sometimes yes, but no one expects them to stop it.

The crowd last night were full of 'hate speech', quickly judging HMs based on their accent/beliefs etc and then booing them, shouting 'OFF OFF OFF OFF' like a pack of rabid dogs - is that not 'hate speech'?


My point is: You can't have it both ways.

If you want to be fair and intellectually consistent then you can't call it 'phobia' and 'hate speech' one minute (when it refers to certain beliefs/genders/sexuality/races etc) while at the same time pull someone apart on a really personal level with the exact same kind of 'hate speech' and think that's OK

(in fact the comments made about HMs on a personal level on BB forums and on BBBOTS are usually FAR worse than some old off-hand tweet like Tom's)

Either you ban all 'hate speech' which means no more rude comments about ANYONE EVER regardless of their race/gender/sexuality/background etc (which would be a pretty boring, over-controlled world to live in) or you allow people to say what they like and just deal with it whether you like it or not.

You can't pick and choose.

It's all or nothing.

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What if he had written a tweet calling someone 'a posh idiot' would that be labelled 'hate speech' or 'upper-class-ophobic'?

What if he had targeted an individual with a big nose and called them 'concorde face', would that be considered 'hate speech' or 'nose-ophobic'?

Why is it NOT OK to make rude comments or use rude words about certain groups within society, while at the same time it's totally ok to say rude things about other groups or individuals?

Why is it ok for us all to say hateful things about INDIVIDUAL HMs and attack them on a very personal level, while at the same time we can't say anything bad about their race/gender/background etc?

These forums are full of so-called 'hate speech' towards individual HMs. So is every episode of BBBOTS. So is every newspaper. It's offensive sometimes yes, but no one expects them to stop it.

The crowd last night were full of 'hate speech', quickly judging HMs based on their accent/beliefs etc and then booing them, shouting 'OFF OFF OFF OFF' like a pack of rabid dogs - is that not 'hate speech'?


My point is: You can't have it both ways.

If you want to be fair and intellectually consistent then you can't call it 'phobia' and 'hate speech' one minute (when it refers to certain beliefs/genders/sexuality/races etc) while at the same time pull someone apart on a really personal level with the exact same kind of 'hate speech' and think that's OK

(in fact the comments made about HMs on a personal level on BB forums and on BBBOTS are usually FAR worse than some old off-hand tweet like Tom's)

Either you ban all 'hate speech' which means no more rude comments about ANYONE EVER regardless of their race/gender/sexuality/background etc (which would be a pretty boring, over-controlled world to live in) or you allow people to say what they like and just deal with it whether you like it or not.

You can't pick and choose.

It's all or nothing.

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You don't understand and you never will judging by the examples you used in this post.

Having a big nose isn't likely to result in being attacked or abused, rich people don't live in fear of being thrown out by their families and loved ones because of their status. These examples are not examples of hate speech, you don't understand what hate speech is because you likely have never been a victim of it. Hate speech does not equal insults. It's an attack on someone's existence and it's about enforcing the feeling that certain parts of society are second class citizens. Telling someone they have a big nose is not hate speech and quite frankly it's vile that you think they are in any way shape or form at all similar because it downplays actual hate speech and makes it seem less dangerous than it actually is.

You need to understand what Hate Speech is because this post just tells me that you don't have a clue, also don't bring up a freedom of speech quote when you don't really understand what that means either.
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What if he had written a tweet calling someone 'a posh idiot' would that be labelled 'hate speech' or 'upper-class-ophobic'?

What if he had targeted an individual with a big nose and called them 'concorde face', would that be considered 'hate speech' or 'nose-ophobic'?

Why is it NOT OK to make rude comments or use rude words about certain groups within society, while at the same time it's totally ok to say rude things about other groups or individuals?

Why is it ok for us all to say hateful things about INDIVIDUAL HMs and attack them on a very personal level, while at the same time we can't say anything bad about their race/gender/background etc?

These forums are full of so-called 'hate speech' towards individual HMs. So is every episode of BBBOTS. So is every newspaper. It's offensive sometimes yes, but no one expects them to stop it.

The crowd last night were full of 'hate speech', quickly judging HMs based on their accent/beliefs etc and then booing them, shouting 'OFF OFF OFF OFF' like a pack of rabid dogs - is that not 'hate speech'?


My point is: You can't have it both ways.

If you want to be fair and intellectually consistent then you can't call it 'phobia' and 'hate speech' one minute (when it refers to certain beliefs/genders/sexuality/races etc) while at the same time pull someone apart on a really personal level with the exact same kind of 'hate speech' and think that's OK

(in fact the comments made about HMs on a personal level on BB forums and on BBBOTS are usually FAR worse than some old off-hand tweet like Tom's)

Either you ban all 'hate speech' which means no more rude comments about ANYONE EVER regardless of their race/gender/sexuality/background etc (which would be a pretty boring, over-controlled world to live in) or you allow people to say what they like and just deal with it whether you like it or not.

You can't pick and choose.

It's all or nothing.

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FFs. It's about moral responsibility and social sensitivity. The reason race and sexuality are two of the most sensitive areas of hate speech is as follows. 'Posh' people and people with big noses have never gone through mass persecution, nor are they still fighting for equal rights across the world. Hate speech targets the most vulnerable in society; people who are still fighting for rights.
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