[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by parmnion

2012 was the worst year of my life..in the space of 6 months i lost my 16 yr old son and my 72 yr old father.


Here is 2 of my messages today on facebook...one to my partners dad and one to my son that i had when i was 19 that i brought up until he was 5 b4 his mum up and moved...i have always stayed in touch and had loads of contact more so now he is an adult...but anyway..

Good couple of hours spent in the company of the only man who has come close to filling the shoes.....cheers ronald..

And this when my son asked me if a certain fathers day gift would be ok....Nah...only thing ah want is you to hug me like your never going to let go next time i see you x




The dabate.....are step dads usually better than dads?

So very sorry about your losses Parmnion, I had a father and stepfather,and my stepfather was the one I looked up to and respected.i never really got on with my biological father.I think stepdads work at the relationship more as they want you to accept them.