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Originally Posted by Cherie

Thank you, my memory is serving me well, didn't see it at the time, the thread shows that Brillo may have made a presumption based on the picture and the family name, or she may know that Wahid is a muslim name, not sure which, it also shows Brillo shows great restraint under provocation and remains polite and argues her corner in a polite manner unless pushed.

It being a traditionally Muslim name is no more relevant than if it was a traditionally Christian name, though, my first daughter's first and middle names are biblical but we're both non-religious... Their name says nothing about their current religious status or how strictly they adhere to it. Or they may well be Muslim, but that still says nothing about the mother's motivations for her complaint... It's all pure assumption, based on their name and POSSIBLE cultural background and if that isn't prejudice, then prejudice doesn't exist?

But fair enough Cherie, I'll give to her that she's not easily riled or rattled, however I disagree that the content of a post is automatically A-OK just because it's argued with a level head.