[Vicky.]

IMO third wave feminism is pretty much a bunch of bollocks anyway from what I know of the 'terms' (which is arguably not that much)

“Toxic masculinity” to me just reeks of an attack on maleness.

I would not say that. Unless you think being male is all about being seriously masculine I would disagree that it is tbh, and I am entirely honest when I say I do not actually know that many blokes who ARE really really masculine. And either way, I certainly did not mean it as an attack on maleness.

I will not budge though on what I said about the expectation of men adhering to sex based stereotypes..hurts men though Thats not blaming men, its blaming the stereotypes. I also think the expectation to adhere to female stereotypes is detrimental to women.