[Vicky.]

OK I am not really understanding what I have done wrong here. Does every post I make need to be an essay? Am I not allowed to say that women do not have penises? What exactly is your problem with my posts here, please be specific. I could of course go into huge essays on every post in SD..but thats holding me to a MUCH higher standard than anyone else on here. I am not allowed to be sarcastic? I am not allowed to make one line posts? I am not allowed to call men men, or to say the word dick? I genuinely am not understanding the issue and if I did have a clear outline of quite what it is you think I should and should not be posting, I could maybe get myself up to your standards. But I won't be censoring my opinions on things to suit others. In SD and on the main forum in general I self censor various insulting posts that I do feel like posting sometimes, I self censor when I go OTT into a rant..and have to delete it rather than post (happens a fair bit ), but I refuse to self censor just...opinions that some people happen to not like. Or posts they reckon are a bit too sharp..thats just my posting style and always has been.

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

OK I am not really understanding what I have done wrong here. Does every post I make need to be an essay? Am I not allowed to say that women do not have penises? What exactly is your problem with my posts here, please be specific. I could of course go into huge essays on every post in SD..but thats holding me to a MUCH higher standard than anyone else on here. I am not allowed to be sarcastic? I am not allowed to make one line posts? I am not allowed to call men men, or to say the word dick? I genuinely am not understanding the issue and if I did have a clear outline of quite what it is you think I should and should not be posting, I could maybe get myself up to your standards.

They're YOUR standards, Vicky, read your own topics and posts on "cleaning up this section"?

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

They're YOUR standards, Vicky, read your own topics and posts on "cleaning up this section"?

I have read that, I wrote it. Still not understanding where I am going wrong in your opinion. I don't bait and snipe, I don't insult people (and if I do, I do apologize). I don't make multiple threads on the same topic. I rarely post one word/line replies...still not getting it.

I think your real problem is still that you reckon I permabanned thetruth off my own back. As its been alluded to a few times now and it seems to be then that you seemed having an issue with me. I did not permaban the truth as I had argued with him. His ban had been discussed for literally months in the admin section, and his posts in that topic (not the arguing with me, the posts in general) were just the straw that broke the camels back, so to speak. he got a short ban, and over the course of that night and the following morning, it was decided that now was the time to finally bite the bullet and put a longer ban on him. I understand how it might come across as me just doing it, but no mod just does a permaban because they feel like it. Its a long (too long sometimes) drawn out process and needs near 100% agreement between all staff members.

If the problem is not this, then fair enough..but I feel it maybe needed explained anyway as you do seem to be pretty pissed off about that ban.