[Rob!]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

So you don't think the members giving a small ban for speaking out should have a voice ? You think we should put up and shut up ? THIS is why its all come to a head,because for a long time people HAVE put up and shut up and its caused bad feeling ...Better to have a couple of days bashing out the problem than letting it fester

Yeah, but you've come back kicking and screaming because you've been given a ban. As stated earlier in the thread, you broke the rules, and for once you were punished. You can't be whinging about the mods that gave you that punishment when you're just as guilty of what you're complaining about.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Rob!

Yeah, but you've come back kicking and screaming because you've been given a ban. As stated earlier in the thread, you broke the rules, and for once you were punished. You can't be whinging about the mods that gave you that punishment when you're just as guilty of what you're complaining about.

Now please take a minute and find where Ive "come back kicking and screaming " about getting a ban.... I took the ban on the chin as adults do ,my complaint is about ONE mod, not all mods

[Rob!]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Now please take a minute and find where Ive "come back kicking and screaming " about getting a ban.... I took the ban on the chin as adults do ,my complaint is about ONE mod, not all mods

Oh, so it's just coincidence that it happens to be the mod that gave you that ban?

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Rob!

Oh, so it's just coincidence that it happens to be the mod that gave you that ban?

How do you know who banned me ? This will be interesting and prove our point of the sneaky stuff going on in PM if you've been told by a mod that they banned me .. my case will be proven

[Rob!]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

How do you know who banned me ? This will be interesting and prove our point of the sneaky stuff going on in PM if you've been told by a mod that they banned me .. my case will be proven

Because Dezzy explained earlier in the thread how he dealt with the matter. There's nothing sneaky about it. He handed out three infraction points to everyone involved.

[Withano]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Now please take a minute and find where Ive "come back kicking and screaming " about getting a ban.... I took the ban on the chin as adults do ,my complaint is about ONE mod, not all mods

You’re complaint comes off aggressive, insulting, and rude... so your problem with anybody being anything wont be taken as seriously as you’d like...

[jet]

Originally Posted by Withano

You’re complaint comes off aggressive, insulting, and rude... so your problem with anybody being anything wont be taken as seriously as you’d like...

You are one of the biggest baiters on here, especially when it comes to Brillo. Got any bans lately?

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by jet

You are one of the biggest baiters on here, especially when it comes to Brillo. Got any bans lately?

100% agree with this one.

[Josy]

Originally Posted by jet

You are one of the biggest baiters on here, especially when it comes to Brillo. Got any bans lately?

Posts like this do nothing but bait and cause trouble not to mention are against the rules, again doing the very thing you accuse someone else of, if the thread descends into chaos and arguing it ends up closed and decent suggestions and grievances get overlooked.

[jet]

Originally Posted by Josy

Posts like this do nothing but bait and cause trouble not to mention are against the rules, again doing the very thing you accuse someone else of, if the thread descends into chaos and arguing it ends up closed and decent suggestions and grievances get overlooked.

But its okay for Withano to call Chuff's complaints aggressive, insulting and rude?
But okay, point taken.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by jet

But its okay for Withano to call Chuff's complaints aggressive, insulting and rude?
But okay, point taken.

Exactly .......

[Ammi]

...I did think some things with Brillo felt uncomfortable and quite ‘targeting’...but do people not see, it’s the same with Dezzy now, the very same thing with the vein the thread has taken...I thought a private tea room type chat with a few members and staff to be the thing...not this hostility and targeting which is effectively bully behaviour....

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Ammi

...I did think some things with Brillo felt uncomfortable and quite ‘targeting’...but do people not see, it’s the same with Dezzy now, the very same thing with the vein the thread has taken...I thought a private tea room type chat with a few members and staff to be the thing...not this hostility and targeting which is effectively bully behaviour....

A privacy thing would have been better,but people decided to come into the thread and presume that the banned members were thowing tantrums because of bans etc,well that is not the case ,not for me anyway,but we are bound to retaliate when someone tells us what OUR problem is,lol, I have also felt deeply sorry for brillo at times,and I did liken it to bullying,I try very hard to ignore people I don't get on with but sometimes it's very hard to do,we are all human and not perfect but like I have said numerous times sometimes it's not what you say but how you say it.

[Withano]

Originally Posted by jet

You are one of the biggest baiters on here, especially when it comes to Brillo. Got any bans lately?

Report them when you see them, lord knows I do the same for you!

Brillo and I barely communicated in the weeks before her ban if you must know. I used to take issue with her posting style, but I didnt before her ban - it was much more thoughtful and diverse imo.

I have 4 in-date infractions, I think 3 of them are fair. I’m not screaming bias for the forth one that I disagree with because I’m already over it. Things happen.

[jet]

Originally Posted by Withano

Report them when you see them, lord knows I do the same for you!

Brillo and I barely communicated in the weeks before her ban if you must know. I used to take issue with her posting style, but I didnt before her ban - it was much more thoughtful and diverse imo.

I have 4 in-date infractions, I think 3 of them are fair. I’m not screaming bias for the forth one that I disagree with because I’m already over it. Things happen.

I rarely report posts, its just not something I feel comfortable doing.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by jet

I rarely report posts, its just not something I feel comfortable doing.

....hmmm, but then if you don’t personally report posts, Jet...but others may do with a post of yours for instance....does that not go in some way to explain what is felt to be ‘inconsistancy’...it could be more which posts are reported while others aren’t..?...

[Withano]

Originally Posted by jet

I rarely report posts, its just not something I feel comfortable doing.

For closure, I’ve had several infractions for interactions with Brillo in the past, and I agree that the vast bulk of them are fair.

I’d add, if we’re putting those standards on to the rest of the forum in this specific thread, and the way they’re discussing members (most specifically Dezzy)... I would have thought there’d be over 100 points of infractions between the lot of us.