[GypsyGoth]

Akinator

[Ninastar]

omg!!!

thank you

[GypsyGoth]

Very welcome

[Z]

Originally Posted by Ninastar

no you bitch the turban head one

Argh it's on the tip of my tongue

[Z]

ffs I think there's a lag on my browser

[King Gizzard]

that Akinator is a bastard

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Jake.

I think a female might be interested in me, this is a rare occurrence

....that sounds like a young lady with exceptional taste to me, Jake...

Originally Posted by Z

Is there anything worse than a friendship that ceases to exist when that person gets into a relationship? Because on the one hand you're happy for them but on the other hand if that relationship ends the friend comes crawling back and depending on the length of the relationship, they might not have been there for any of you for months or years even.

Originally Posted by Z

My best friend (since we were 12) broke up with his girlfriend a couple of months ago, they'd gone out for 2 years and as happy as I was for him, I just couldn't warm to her, she never tried to get to know any of his friends and would spend all of her time with him so he just never spent any time with us... and now they've split up and we speak every day like we used to before she was on the scene and I'm happy about that, obviously, but my life's moved on a lot in the last two years and I'm sort of wondering whether, after enough time has passed, if I should say something about how ****ty it was to just drop all of his friends for that long and to just reappear like nothing happened :/

,,I'm not sure it would achieve anything by saying something though, would it..?..I mean it wouldn't change anything that's happened and I think with anyone in your life/friends etc...you just have to make a decision about now and about whether you want that person as a friend and part of your life because we're all flawed and maybe it wasn't the best way to handle his friendship/s when he met someone..but then everyone is different when they meet someone they really care about...some people just become totally absorbed in their feelings and that person and that's all they see..and I don't think it's an intentional thing to exclude friends, it's just that they don't always have the capabilities to manage different relationships all at the same time ...hmmmm, I just think that mentioning it now won't really achieve anything and when he meets someone again, the same thing could happen..all we can do is to decide whether we want that friendship 'warts and all'...or whether we feel that person isn't someone we want in our lives.....

[Ammi]

[AnnieK]

Yeah I'm with Ammi in this one. It could drive a wedge between you and won't change the last couple of years, yes he may think about it if he were to meet someone else but probably not. I have had friends who have done similar and I was just happy that they felt able to come back and carry on as before. It's obviously your call Greg, you have to do what feels right for you.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by AnnieK

Yeah I'm with Ammi in this one. It could drive a wedge between you and won't change the last couple of years, yes he may think about it if he were to meet someone else but probably not. I have had friends who have done similar and I was just happy that they felt able to come back and carry on as before. It's obviously your call Greg, you have to do what feels right for you.

..I think that's exactly it, Annie...friendships don't always burn at the same brightness..quite often other things take priority in people's lives and the friendship fades a bit...and I do understand that feeling of being lest out or pushed aside but that happens and it isn't an intentional thing and I think the thing for me that I would focus on is not that I had felt that I wasn't important anymore at a time in their lives but that it was a sign of a strength in our friendship that the person felt they wanted to renew it again...

[Ammi]

..I think it's also understandably hard to feel happy for a friend who has found someone that they want to spend all of their time with when it means that it will take them away from their own friendship with that person people can often think, oh I don't think that person is good for my friend/I don't like them that much..?...you know..?..

[Z]

Originally Posted by Ammi

....that sounds like a young lady with exceptional taste to me, Jake...




,,I'm not sure it would achieve anything by saying something though, would it..?..I mean it wouldn't change anything that's happened and I think with anyone in your life/friends etc...you just have to make a decision about now and about whether you want that person as a friend and part of your life because we're all flawed and maybe it wasn't the best way to handle his friendship/s when he met someone..but then everyone is different when they meet someone they really care about...some people just become totally absorbed in their feelings and that person and that's all they see..and I don't think it's an intentional thing to exclude friends, it's just that they don't always have the capabilities to manage different relationships all at the same time ...hmmmm, I just think that mentioning it now won't really achieve anything and when he meets someone again, the same thing could happen..all we can do is to decide whether we want that friendship 'warts and all'...or whether we feel that person isn't someone we want in our lives.....

That's why I've been wondering if I should say something though, maybe he just didn't realise that that's what he's doing? It's not that I'd be bitching about how much I hated her, I'd just bring up that he didn't seem to spend any time with his friends and we're all so glad that he's around again... you know, in a positive way.

[Z]

My mum's photo exhibition is now up was meant to be on Tuesday but it's now up today, Friday, which is a better day to premiere things anyway!! So proud!

[Kate!]

That's great Greg

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Z

My mum's photo exhibition is now up was meant to be on Tuesday but it's now up today, Friday, which is a better day to premiere things anyway!! So proud!

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[Ninastar]

I got sunburnt from going on the sunbed today

[King Gizzard]

clever caitlin

[Natalie.]

[T*]

Okay I nearly cried again

[T*]

I swear I wrote cried from laughing at that gif

[Ninastar]

Originally Posted by Nathan

clever caitlin

its actually really sore

and it was only 8 mins that i was on it for

[Brother Leon]

Sunbeds are no good

[Ninastar]

i wanna be black though

(not really i just wanna be tan)

[King Gizzard]

Originally Posted by Ninastar

i wanna be black though

(not really i just wanna be tan)

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Ninastar

I got sunburnt from going on the sunbed today

..your skin is beautiful as it is, Caitlin...just use the sunbeds carefully, ok...