[Sophii3x]

Originally Posted by WOMBAI

That is it exactly! Guilty conscience! How can you trust him completely - when he has already cheated on you?

I just do, don't get me wrong I never thought I could.. but I'm at a point where I know he's changed. All that was a long time ago.. we were together for 9 months when were 14/15 (both nearly 19 now) and he slept and left me for my best friend. Over a year later we got back together again and now we've been with each other for over 2 and a half years. He refuses to let me talk about the past, he gets too upset/angry but I don't like him being all jealous when he doesn't need to be.

[Dr.Gonzo]

Originally Posted by Sophii3x

I just do, don't get me wrong I never thought I could.. but I'm at a point where I know he's changed. All that was a long time ago.. we were together for 9 months when were 14/15 (both nearly 19 now) and he slept and left me for my best friend. Over a year later we got back together again and now we've been with each other for over 2 and a half years. He refuses to let me talk about the past, he gets too upset/angry but I don't like him being all jealous when he doesn't need to be.

You see, because he's done it, he can see how easy it is to do. If I can do it, then she can, too, he'll think.

[WOMBAI]

Originally Posted by Sophii3x

I just do, don't get me wrong I never thought I could.. but I'm at a point where I know he's changed. All that was a long time ago.. we were together for 9 months when were 14/15 (both nearly 19 now) and he slept and left me for my best friend. Over a year later we got back together again and now we've been with each other for over 2 and a half years. He refuses to let me talk about the past, he gets too upset/angry but I don't like him being all jealous when he doesn't need to be.

You were both very young - he may well have changed. But I would be a little concerned about his refusal to talk about it. If you need to talk about it - to lay it to rest - he owes you that!

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Sophii3x

I just do, don't get me wrong I never thought I could.. but I'm at a point where I know he's changed. All that was a long time ago.. we were together for 9 months when were 14/15 (both nearly 19 now) and he slept and left me for my best friend. Over a year later we got back together again and now we've been with each other for over 2 and a half years. He refuses to let me talk about the past, he gets too upset/angry but I don't like him being all jealous when he doesn't need to be.

and are you still friends with your "best friend"?

[Sophii3x]

Originally Posted by Dr.Gonzo

You see, because he's done it, he can see how easy it is to do. If I can do it, then she can, too, he'll think.

That's what my friends say. But as I said he doesn't need to worry cause I wouldn't dream of doing it.

Originally Posted by WOMBAI

You were both very young - he may well have changed. But I would be a little concerned about his refusal to talk about it. If you need to talk about it - to lay it to rest - he owes you that!

He definately has. Trust me, I've tried.. he just feels it's easier to forget it knowing how much it affected/hurt me at the time.

Originally Posted by Niamhxo

and are you still friends with your "best friend"?

Hell to the no :P She actually went and stole the next boyfriend I had after all that. Worst.friend.EVER, I still hate her.

[Dr.Gonzo]

Once a cheat always a cheat.... as in, if you can find a reason - excuse - to do it once, you can always find another reason if you so wish.